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Arthouse drama has complex themes, mild language.
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Memoria
What's the Story?
In MEMORIA, Jessica Holland (Tilda Swinton) is a British woman staying in Colombia who begins to experience phantom sonic bangs that only she can hear. The sounds start to cause a bout of insomnia for Jessica and a feeling of detachment from those around her. At the same time she starts to doubt her experiences and memories. Is she having some kind of breakdown or are other forces at play? Her search for answers leads her deep into the jungle, where reality seems to fracture even further.
Is It Any Good?
His first film shot outside of Thailand and featuring an international star, this captivating film introduces Apichatpong Weerasethakul's meditative, otherworldly filmmaking to a much wider audience. Colombia's Oscar entry for Best International Feature Film, the stillness and silence of Memoria may frustrate some viewers but will enchant others as an exercise in mindfulness before entertainment. The eeriness created as Swinton's Jessica sits at the dinner table choosing to not even react to the sonic boom that nobody else can hear perfectly embodies the spiritual isolation the film explores. The nature of reality itself is a central theme here. Is it shared or individual? How much does it change with every tiny occurrence?
The director conjures a detached feeling that echos Jessica's insomniac state, as she tries to piece together fractures of what's real and what makes sense. An ongoing symphony of car alarms, characters that appear to traverse dimensions, and talk of ancient burial grounds tease other forces at play. But what there is at the heart of the film is an existential disorder perfectly embodied by Swinton's stripped-back, haunting portrayal.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about some of the themes raised in Memoria. The film seems to suggest at times that Jessica's experience of reality is not in sync with those around her. What do you understand of reality? Do we all share the same version of it, or could it be different for each of us?
Discuss the idea of an unreliable narrator. How might this be said to be applicable to Jessica?
The director uses silence and stillness to create a strong sense of atmosphere in the film. How did you feel about this kind of filming technique? Can you think of other films that use very little action to explore their themes?
Movie Details
- In theaters : December 26, 2021
- On DVD or streaming : July 25, 2022
- Cast : Tilda Swinton , Elkin Diaz , Jeanne Balibar
- Director : Apichatpong Weerasethakul
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Neon
- Genre : Drama
- Topics : STEM
- Character Strengths : Curiosity , Perseverance
- Run time : 136 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : some thematic elements and brief language
- Last updated : September 29, 2025
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