Men

Twisted horror has full-frontal nudity, disturbing themes.
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Men
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A Lot or a Little?
The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Men is a unique horror with full-frontal male nudity and disturbing scenes, including domestic and sexual violence, and suicide. It's a complex, metaphorical film about grief, toxic masculinity, and PTSD. The central character, Harper (Jessie Buckley), is a strong-willed and independent woman who heads to the English countryside following the death of her husband. There, her fear -- that all men are the same; dangerous and toxic -- manifests in a deranged and surrealistic way. The violence gets gory, albeit fantastical, with stabbings and murders, and a rape sequence too. A body is seen impaled and bloody, having fallen from a great height. A man is also seen punching his wife in the face. There is frequent full-frontal male nudity, mostly of one man, but another is seen later on too. The language is also strong and frequent, with multiple uses of the word "f--k," while the slur "gypos" is used to describe the traveling community. There are several very strange images later on too, including close-ups of a man giving birth, to another man.
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A creepy allegory that takes a hard left turn in its final moments
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What's the Story?
MEN tells the story of Harper (Jessie Buckley) who sets off to a remote village in the English countryside in a bid to come to terms with the death of her ex-husband, James (Paapa Essiedu). Staying at a grand country house that belongs to a local man called Geoffrey (Rory Kinnear), Harper is haunted by her own memories and, it seems, by Geoffrey -- and it turns out there are a lot of Geoffreys in this village.
Is It Any Good?
Written and directed by Alex Garland, this twisted tale will most certainly be divisive. If a friend saw Men and told you they hated it, you'd understand where they were coming from. Likewise, if they raved about their experience, you wouldn't necessarily be surprised. It's a movie that almost feels unsatisfying on a first watch, such is the complexity of the story at hand, and the layers being explored by Garland. In what is effectively a somewhat simplistic premise, comes a film that thrives in its metaphorical elements, and truly comes to life in its surrealist ones.
Buckley is at her very best as the central character, though needless to say much of the attention here will be focusing on Kinnear. The talented actor turns in the most remarkable performance of his career, playing a whole myriad of characters and bringing an unnerving depth to each and every one of them. It's a film that in some ways will be defined as a horror, but doesn't play up to the familiar cliches, surprising the viewer at each and every passing opportunity. Movies like this don't come around very often, and even if you do veer toward the side of not liking the film, you're unlikely to forget it.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the violence and psychological abuse in Men. How did it affect you? How much was actually shown? How realistic did it seem? Does exposure to violent media desensitize kids to violence?
Did you find the movie scary? How did it compare to other "horror" movies? What's the appeal of scary movies?
There is a lot of nudity in the film. Was it necessary to the story? Was it handled sensitively? Why is that important?
Talk about the strong language in the movie. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?
How did the film explore themes around grief? Have you experienced loss in your own life? How did it impact you?
Movie Details
- In theaters: May 20, 2022
- On DVD or streaming: August 9, 2022
- Cast: Jessie Buckley, Rory Kinnear, Paapa Essiedu
- Director: Alex Garland
- Studio: A24
- Genre: Horror
- Topics: Monsters, Ghosts, and Vampires
- Run time: 100 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: disturbing and violent content, graphic nudity, grisly images and language.
- Last updated: March 12, 2023
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