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By Stefan Pape
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Charming dramedy has strong female leads, positive themes.
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Military Wives
What's the Story?
In MILITARY WIVES, with her husband deployed in Afghanistan, Kate (Kristin Scott Thomas) decides to set up a choir for fellow wives to distract them from the horrors of reality. Kate recruits Lisa (Sharon Hogan) who is initially apprehensive to help her. But when the wives do join forces, unexpected friendships are formed, and the music, and laughter that comes with it, helps present them with something positive to focus their energy on.
Is It Any Good?
Directed by Peter Cattaneo, this movie sits in the category of feel-good comedies that display the strength in community spirit. Military Wives is akin to the likes of Calendar Girls and Unfinished Song. Equipped with that undeniable British charm, the movie is helped along by its central performances, as not only do Scott Thomas and Hogan impress, but their chemistry -- and initial lack of it -- works incredibly well on screen. Given the themes at play, it's advisable to take tissues to this one for it's a real tear-jerker. This is despite at times being conventional and predictable, with a structure that feels all too familiar.
While there's a tenderness to this story, the constant fear of death offers a profound undercurrent that enriches the story at hand. That said, it does feel rushed, and their rise from singing Don't You Want Me out of tune in a local town hall to suddenly being invited to major events feels too rapid. It's as though a whole chapter in a novel has been accidentally skipped. But these shortcomings are forgivable, as the singing sequences are engaging, and some of their renditions of songs we know and love are really rather catchy.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the portrayal of women in Military Wives. Are the portrayals of the women positive?
Talk about death and grief, and the impact it can have on a family. Discuss times when you have lost someone, even a pet, and ways to overcome family tragedy.
Discuss hobbies outside of school. Are there are any local clubs, or groups that take part in communal activities? How can such places encourage teamwork?
Some of the women have a fear of performing? How do they overcome their fears? Describe a time you've had to show courage.
How is war portrayed in the movie? Why do people go to war and fight for their country? How to talk to kids about violence, crime, and war.
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming : August 18, 2020
- Cast : Kristin Scott Thomas , Sharon Horgan , Jason Flemyng
- Director : Peter Cattaneo
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Bleecker Street
- Genre : Comedy
- Topics : Friendship , Arts ( Music and Sing-Along )
- Character Strengths : Courage , Perseverance , Teamwork
- Run time : 112 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : some strong language and sexual references
- Last updated : September 30, 2025
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