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Italian family melodrama; mature themes, language, nudity.
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My Brother, My Sister
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What's the Story?
MY BROTHER, MY SISTER (Mio Fratello, Mia Sorella) begins at the funeral of a family patriarch. His daughter (Claudia Pandolfi), grandchildren (Ludovica Martino and Francesco Caballo), and others grieve the loss of a beloved figure. When estranged son, Nic (Alessandro Preziosi), turns up, he gives a less glowing eulogy and nobody seems particularly happy to see him. Nic has been missing from his sister's life during key years that have included an acrimonious divorce and caring for a son with a serious mental illness. The stipulations of the father's will force the siblings to explore their relationship again and put family ties to the test.
Is It Any Good?
Despite uneven opening and closing sequences, this family melodrama from Italy hits just enough emotionally genuine notes to make it an interesting character study. Middle-aged and older viewers will empathize with some of the issues the sibling duo faces in My Brother, My Sister, including accepting grown children on their own terms, facing the death of elderly parents, and making major life changes while there's still time to enjoy them. Well-acted and set in Rome, which is glimpsed occasionally in street scenes (including a few gratuitous Colosseum shots and a couple of attractive sequences set only to classical music), the film begins with a death and ends with a symbolic rebirth.
The shady color tones used throughout craft a mood, but the film doesn't wallow in darkness or get stuck in the initial anger of the brother and sister, reunited after many years by their difficult father's death. Claudia Pandolfi and Alessandro Preziosi play well to countertypes but also convey a genuine sibling bond. Francesco Caballo embodies Seba, who suffers from mental illness, with a subtle performance punctuated by hand gestures and unreadable glances. The only scenes that feel out of place are the arrival of the irreverent son at the opening funeral and an out-of-body experience toward the end. One tries too hard to introduce disorder and the other to wrap things up too neatly.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the revelation at the end concerning the past in My Brother, My Sister. How did this change your view of the characters? Do you think this was an intentional decision to endear audiences to certain characters?
What did you think of the portrayal of the character of Seba? How have people with mental illness been portrayed differently in other movies you've watched? Do you think filmmakers and actors have a responsibility to depict mental illness realistically and without exaggeration?
The film is set in Rome. What aspects of a contemporary urban Italian lifestyle are depicted here?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming : October 8, 2021
- Cast : Alessandro Preziosi , Claudia Pandolfi , Ludovica Martino
- Director : Roberto Capucci
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Netflix
- Genre : Drama
- Topics : Family Stories ( Siblings ) , Friendship
- Run time : 110 minutes
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- Last updated : September 29, 2025
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