My Happy Ending

Talky cancer dramedy has strong language, pot use.
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My Happy Ending
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A Lot or a Little?
The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that My Happy Ending is a dramedy about an aging movie star named Julia Roth (Andie MacDowell) who faces her cancer diagnosis with the support of three other women in a chemotherapy center. Based on a play, it's mostly women talking in a single setting, and it isn't likely to engage young audiences. Still, it could serve as an intro to cancer: Julia knows nothing about the disease or its treatment, so she asks lots of questions. Much attention is given to how to endure pain by imagining going to a happy place. For families experiencing similar circumstances, Julia's decisions about how to handle her illness may create more worry, and parents in this situation are advised to preview the film first. Characters smoke pot and make references to getting drunk and high, including misusing prescription medication. There's also swearing -- "s--t," "f--k," and more.
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What's the Story?
In MY HAPPY ENDING, aging movie star Julia Roth (Andie MacDowell) receives her first chemotherapy treatment at a remote clinic, hoping to keep her diagnosis a secret. In the cancer ward, she meets three other women from different walks of life who help her find community -- and friendship -- as they share the experience of battling cancer.
Is It Any Good?
Terminal illness films are known to appeal to teens, but this isn't the kind of three-hanky cancer romance-drama they might be looking for. Sill, like many of those films, My Happy Ending is about realizing priorities and making the decision to embrace life, which means something different to the movie's different characters. And there's much that's lovely about women, most of them over the age of 50, coming together to support each other through a difficult time. When one of the patients is feeling intense pain, they hold hands and go "on holiday" together, transported through their imaginations to a happy place until the pain subsides.
But the story may not be particularly engaging to those who haven't had the cancer experience, even though it also serves as a primer about what it means to have cancer and what to expect while treating it. Things never get particularly scary because, other than bald heads and the occasional wince of pain, the women all look to be in remarkably good health. That's a curious choice, as is making the protagonist a movie star. Julia isn't particularly likable: She's entitled, vain, and sometimes petulant. The point of the film is to suggest that the patient should have agency over how they approach their treatment, but Julia's reasoning for her own choices rings hollow. She may get her version of a happy ending, but the audience doesn't.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how My Happy Ending portrays drinking, smoking, and drug use. Is substance use glamorized?
Why is it often helpful to find community with those who are going through similar experiences? What life events do you think would benefit from this approach?
What do you think of Julia's decision about her treatment? Why do you think she chose this route, and do you think it's justified?
Movie Details
- In theaters: February 24, 2023
- Cast: Andie MacDowell, Sally Phillips, Tamsin Greig
- Directors: Tal Granit, Sharon Maymon
- Studio: Roadside Attractions
- Genre: Drama
- Topics: Friendship
- Run time: 89 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: language and brief drug use
- Last updated: February 21, 2023
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