Parents' Guide to Mysterious Skin

Movie 2004 NR 105 minutes
Mysterious Skin Movie Poster: Two boys with overlapping red and blue faces, set against a white background.

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Jose Solis By Jose Solis , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Child sexual abuse, drugs, language in devastating drama.

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What's the Story?

MYSTERIOUS SKIN follows two boys from the same Kansas town. At eight years old, Brian Lackey (Brady Corbet) wakes up in his crawlspace with a bloody nose and no memory of the previous five hours, and over the next decade he comes to believe aliens took him. Neil McCormick (Joseph Gordon-Levitt) remembers his own missing afternoon in full, because his Little League coach (Bill Sage) spent it with him. Neil grows up to work as a hustler in parks and parked cars while his friend Wendy (Michelle Trachtenberg) watches and worries. Brian grows up reading UFO books and finds Avalyn (Mary Lynn Rajskub), a woman who believes the same thing he does. Brian's search for what happened to him eventually leads him to Neil.

Is It Any Good?

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Compassion becomes the method in this haunting portrait of two boys who survived abuse from the same man. Mysterious Skin borrows freely from David Lynch. Director Gregg Araki sets it in a stylized Kansas outside ordinary time, lets the young men these boys became narrate their own flashbacks, and pushes the surreal up against small-town rooms, conjuring the dream logic of Mulholland Drive to tell a story no other film about abuse has told this way. Araki and cinematographer Steve Gainer hold the camera on the children's faces without a trace of morbidity. They grant these boys the tenderness their abuser withheld. After The Doom Generation and the rest of his nihilistic run, Araki reveals the heart that always sat inside the provocation.

Joseph Gordon-Levitt gives the performance of his career as Neil. His rawness, and the cold-heartedness others perceive in him, suggest a modern James Dean. Brady Corbet plays Brian in near silence and says an enormous amount with his eyes. Michelle Trachtenberg knows exactly what loving Neil costs a friend and plays both sides of it. Bill Sage takes the trickiest assignment and stays human while doing something monstrous, never letting the coach curdle into a creep, which frightens far more. Araki offers no easy answers about recovery. He builds toward a bond between these two, and a final scene of real delicacy. Twenty years later, the film has aged beautifully, and anyone mature enough to sit with it will find an essential work from that decade.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the different ways Mysterious Skin shows people surviving the same event. Why does Brian build a story he can live with while Neil refuses to call his experience what it was?

  • Araki films the abuser as charming rather than monstrous. Why is that harder to watch than a traditional villain, and what does it show about how grooming actually works?

  • Wendy sees exactly what Neil is doing to himself and cannot stop him. What can a friend realistically do, and when does someone need help from an adult or a professional?

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