Parents' Guide to Never Rarely Sometimes Always

Movie PG-13 2020 101 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Nonjudgmental teen abortion drama offers insight, info.

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age 15+

Based on 7 parent reviews

age 11+

Based on 3 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES ALWAYS, when 17-year-old Autumn (Sidney Flanigan) learns that she's pregnant, she sets out to get an abortion. Her cousin Skylar (Talia Ryder) accompanies Autumn as she travels from rural Pennsylvania to New York City, where she can terminate her pregnancy without a parent's consent.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 7 ):
Kids say ( 3 ):

This isn't a Hollywood movie: It's the solemn, bare-bones, authentic story of a lower-middle-class teen facing an unexpected pregnancy and doing her best to deal with it. Autumn isn't a talker and most of the time expresses little emotion. But that blank face is a springboard for the mystery viewers try to solve during the film: Who is the father, and what's going on in Autumn's family? (The mother seems like a good egg, while the father is clearly a jerk.) Her default lack of expression also strengthens the moments in which she does get worried or emotional -- we may not know exactly what's going on, but it's enough to know that her desire to get an abortion is well-founded.

That said, Never Rarely Sometimes Always is remarkably nonjudgmental. Writer-director Eliza Hittman authentically portrays one girl's experience, and, in doing so, creates almost an instructional guide. This film's intention isn't to be a big-screen hit, but rather to be more of a resource young women can seek out to help explain and demystify the process of terminating a pregnancy. It also displays the discomfort young women feel with the come-ons, harassment, and inappropriate behavior they encounter regularly. Men don't come off well in the film; there's not one who's not a creep -- even the one "nice" guy is nice because he wants something. And that too can be part of the young female experience. Hittman boldly plays out Autumn's story with no score: The silence can make the time pass slowly, but, just like real life, the deafening silence makes our choices louder.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about their beliefs surrounding unplanned pregnancy and abortion. How were these topics depicted in the film? Do you agree with the way they were handled?

  • What do you think the purpose of Never Rarely Sometimes Always is? Did your opinion change on anything? Did it make you feel compassion for a pregnant teen -- or for Autumn specifically?

  • How are men portrayed in the film? Do you think the daily harassment that Autumn and her cousin experience is true to real life?

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