Parents' Guide to On the Count of Three

Movie R 2022 86 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Monique Jones By Monique Jones , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Hard-to-watch dramedy about suicide has language, violence.

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age 15+

Based on 3 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Death by suicide is the central theme of ON THE COUNT OF THREE. Friends Val (Jerrod Carmichael) and Kevin (Christopher Abbott) are both struggling with their mental health. They decide to help each other die by suicide, a choice that takes them on a road trip around their hometown to make amends, settle scores, and possibly find the meaning to their lives.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say : Not yet rated
Kids say ( 3 ):

This uneven dramedy is intended to be an honest assessment of suicidal ideation and mental health. But watching it could be a difficult or even harmful experience, especially for people who are sensitive to discussions and imagery related to mental health in general and suicide in particular. That said, the film is well acted, with Carmichael and Abbott convincingly playing the two best friends struggling with their mental well-being. The supporting cast, including Tiffany Haddish, JB Smoove, and Henry Winkler, all provide different perspectives on what caused the two men to have poor mental health. Winkler and Smoove are each horrifying in their own way as paternal figures who caused drastic harm in Val and Kevin's childhoods, And as Val's ex-girlfriend Natasha, Haddish shows how, even if someone is struggling with mental health, it's important not to make decisions that could harm someone else.

Despite the great cast, the tonal shifts that On the Count of Three takes to try to lighten up its dark material feel wonky at best and bizarre and disturbing at worst. The main characters' trajectories regarding their feelings about suicide diverge, and a violent third act could inadvertently lead susceptible viewers into believing that death by suicide is the only option for people who have treatment-resistant conditions. Not only is that not true, but the implication is violently dangerous. The film might not be at the level of 13 Reasons Why in terms of glorifying suicide, but its lack of clarity or education on the subject could be just as harmful.

As stated in the film, if you or someone you know needs help, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK or text the Crisis Text Line (text TALK to 741741).

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about mental health. How does mental health tend to be addressed in movies and TV shows? How does On the Count of Three compare?

  • Do you think the film does a good job of addressing mental health, especially when it comes to suicidal ideation? When is it important to talk about mental health, especially if you're worried about a friend or family member? What resources are available to help both kids and adults?

  • How does the film encourage compassion and empathy?

  • How does the film address Val and Kevin's prior traumas?

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