Our Family Wedding

  • Review Date: March 12, 2010
  • Rated: PG-13
  • Genre: Comedy
  • Release Year: 2010
  • Running Time: 90 minutes

Common Sense Media says

Too many stereotypes in this otherwise OK, if bland romcom.
  • Review Date: March 12, 2010
  • Rated: PG-13
  • Genre: Comedy
  • Release Year: 2010
  • Running Time: 90 minutes

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What parents need to know

Positive messages

Although characters are prejudiced, the movie’s message seems to be one of unity and understanding. Love does conquer all, including, in this case, preconceptions and ethnic stereotypes.

Positive role models

What really stands out in this film is the prejudiced behavior of the fathers, both of whom make racist remarks about the other and his family (though all is played for humor). Though in the end, they see the error of their ways, teens might be tempted to imitate some of their behavior in the name of comedy. Also, Lucia is not forthcoming with her parents, and actively shields them from the truth, but her decisions are place into proper context later on. Marcus, meanwhile, is committed to Lucia, but allows himself to be swayed by others’ doubts.

Violence

Two fathers one-up each other and hurl insults, some of which are racist. A fight breaks out in a bar because a drunk character makes fun of a patron. A man hits a guy with a baseball, on purpose.

Sex

A couple makes out on a couch and in a car. No nudity, just kissing and groping. A character jokes about a vibrator. Some innuendos and heavy flirting. An older man enjoys dating and seducing younger women. A goat humps a man.

Language

Not too much cussing, although the words “puta,” “piss,” and “s--t” come up. A few "Oh, my God"s as exclamations.

Consumerism

Some brands are name-checked or displayed: Hallmark, Viagra, Forbes.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Social drinking, plus one scene has two main characters getting completely wasted at a nightclub.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that this imperfect, but heartfelt family-friendly film attempts to address a challenging subject: interracial marriage. In doing so, it doesn’t quite steer clear of clichés, but does entertain while at least partly moving the discussion forward. Stereotyping (including making jokes about Latinos' ability to speak English) dilutes what could’ve made this into a thought-provoking comedy about race. There's some swearing (including "s--t"), social drinking (and one scene of drunkeness), and a bit of kissing and groping between adults.

Parents say

Kids say

What's the story?

Lucia (America Ferrera) and Marcus (Lance Gross) arrive in Los Angeles brimming with excitement: They want to get married right away and better the world overseas as a couple (he with Doctors Without Borders, she by teaching). But snafus pile up immediately, notably an argument that erupts between Lucia’s father, Miguel Ramirez (Carlos Mencia), the owner of a towing company that hauls off a car owned by Marcus’ dad, radio personality Brad Boyd (Forest Whitaker). What’s more, the two families can’t quite get over the fact that each side is a different race and culture. (Lucia is Latina; Marcus is African American.) Can they get to the church without the wedding planning and culture clashes getting in the way?

Is it any good?

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OUR FAMILY WEDDING is a film you want to like. The actors, notably Mencia and Anjelah Johnson as Lucia’s younger sister, Isabella, bring their A-game; the plot’s got loads of potential. And it lives up to some of its promise with moments steeped in authenticity, as when Lucia’s mother laments how she’s become nearly invisible to her well-meaning husband. The movie, in fact, deals with marital ennui with welcome compassion.

But its potential to offer more wit and insight is squelched by its reliance on stereotypes to get its point across. A typical exchange: Miguel and Brad get under each other’s skins by saying “bro” and “hombre” with disdain. And yes, there are jokes about whether Lucia's relatives understand English. Everyone behaves badly, and in broad, intolerant strokes. Surely, there must’ve been a subtler way to depict the anxieties that arise when two very different families are joined by marriage. Plus, are wayward animals a must now in comedies? A sexed-up goat makes an appearance to add some much-needed zaniness to the proceedings, but it’s no competition for The Hangovers tiger.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about stereotypes. Do you think the film went over the top in its depiction of the culture

  • clash that ensues between Lucia’s and Marcus’ relatives? Were some of

  • the stereotypical jokes offensive?

  • Talk about the couple’s decision to marry, and how they spring it on their

  • respective families. Are their reactions understandable? Why, or why

  • not?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:March 12, 2010
DVD release date:July 13, 2010
Cast:America Ferrera, Carlos Mencia, Forest Whitaker, Lance Gross, Regina King
Director:Rick Famuyiwa
Studio:Fox Searchlight
Genre:Comedy
Run time:90 minutes
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:some sexual content and brief strong language

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Parent of a 12 and 16 year old Written byladyredd March 15, 2010
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17
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Totally enjoyed this movie and would take my kids to see it
What other families should know
Great messages
Teen, 14 years old Written bymiz.nera March 13, 2010
Teen, 14 years old Written byTotally500 August 28, 2010
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14
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An alright movie

It was alright not great or anything.Acting horrilble less comedy than in other comedy films
What other families should know
Too much sex
Great messages
Great role models

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