Pariah
By S. Jhoanna Robledo,
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Smart, sad, empowering film about a teen coming out.

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What's the Story?
After leaving for school every day, Alike (Adepero Oduye) -- a high school senior in New York -- changes out of the feminine clothes her mother (Kim Wayans) buys for her to become more of who she is: a lesbian. Living two lives isn't easy. She's inexperienced and doesn't know how to go about finding a girlfriend. Her best friend, Laura (Pernell Walker), thinks a strip club might be the answer; meanwhile, a new classmate intrigues Alike ... and the feeling is mutual.
Is It Any Good?
PARIAH is brave. Pariah is heart-wrenching. Pariah captures the struggles of girls like Alike eloquently. So there are plenty of reasons to see it. Nevertheless, be prepared for a film that could leave you depressed (it's so intense that it can be exhausting). It's also somewhat predictable. The script paints the big picture but relies on unoriginal plot standbys (parents in denial, nurturing teachers offering outlets).
Once you have a grasp of Alike's troubles, you can almost see the resolutions coming. That's a pity, because the acting here is truly stunning. Still, flaws and all, Pariah has a powerful message. And how exciting it is to see the ending unfold after rooting for Alike all along.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about Alike's situation. What is she afraid of? Is she a relatable character? Would you consider her a role model?
How does the movie portray drinking and drug use? Are there realistic consequences?
What is the takeaway from Pariah? Is it difficult to compartmentalize and shield part of yourself from your family? Should you have to?
Movie Details
- In theaters: December 28, 2011
- On DVD or streaming: April 24, 2012
- Cast: Aasha Davis, Adepero Oduye, Pernell Walker
- Director: Dee Rees
- Inclusion Information: Queer directors, Black directors, Black actors
- Studio: Focus Features
- Genre: Drama
- Topics: Friendship, Great Girl Role Models, High School
- Run time: 90 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: sexual content and language
- Last updated: May 25, 2023
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