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Playing It Cool

By Jeffrey Anderson, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 16+

Cheerful cast saves lackluster romcom; lots of sex talk.

Movie R 2015 94 minutes
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age 14+

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Maya M
Maya M Parent of 10 and 12-year-old
September 9, 2022
age 14+

Too much sex and usage of “balls”, “dick”, “penis”, and “boobies”

Too much sex for me. The Main characters have sex. A man makes oral sex in his car. There is some scenes of sex in a bed under the sheets. Lots of sexual jokes and sex talk. The use of words like “balls”, ”dick”, “blow job”, “penis” and “boob” Lots of heavy and hot kissing scenes which are mostly naked or with implied nudity. Lots of swearing. Seductive women and implied that men are being seduced by women with big breasts and sexy revealing clothing. Girl sucking lip and finger implying she is suggesting sex and oral sexual activities.

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What's the Story?

In PLAYING IT COOL, an unnamed narrator (Chris Evans) works as a screenwriter, toiling away on a romantic comedy that just can't seem to come together. That's because, since his mother abandoned him as a child, he's never really been in love. But things change when he meets the perfect girl (Michelle Monaghan) and everything clicks; everything, that is, except for the fact that she has a boyfriend (Ioan Gruffudd) and would rather trade love for security. The narrator's band of writer friends (Aubrey Plaza, Topher Grace, Luke Wilson, Martin Starr), his agent (Anthony Mackie), and his granddad (Philip Baker Hall) give him advice -- and help deconstruct the romantic comedy formula that the narrator's life seems to be turning into.

Is It Any Good?

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The main storyline doesn't quite work, the movie's smaller character interactions are charmingly funny. The cast genuinely seems to enjoy one another's company (especially Evans and Anthony Mackie, of Captain America and the Falcon fame). They contribute a laid-back quality that helps the rest of the movie go down fairly easy, even if it will soon be forgotten.

Playing It Cool seems to be an attempt to go "meta" on the romantic comedy genre, with a screenwriter and all his writer friends talking about all the genre's shopworn twists and turns as the movie goes along. The problem is that the movie actually uses those old shopworn twists and turns, straight-faced, without irony. The idea seems to be that true love trumps all screenwriting conventions, but while the chemistry between Evans and Monaghan is friendly and easygoing, it hardly seems adoring, burning, or passionate.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Playing It Cool's sexual content. How do the characters view sex? How much sex/nudity is shown? What affect does it have on the characters and the story? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

  • Why do you think the characters drink so much? Do they seem to enjoy it, or do they turn to it for other reasons? Are there any realistic consequences?

  • What does the movie have to say about the romantic comedy genre? Why do you think so many romantic comedies rely on the same elements?

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