Parents' Guide to Queen Bees

Movie PG-13 2021 100 minutes
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Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Retiree romcom has wine, weed, and wink-wink humor.

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age 14+

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What's the Story?

Three years after the death of her husband, Helen's family is hounding her to sell her house and move to a senior living facility. When a kitchen fire forces the issue, Helen (Ellen Burstyn) agrees to a temporary stay at nearby Pine Grove Senior Residences. Her reluctance to settle in there is exacerbated by the QUEEN BEES, a clique of bullies that rules the retirement home. Not willing to return to high school politics at her age, Helen takes them on with the help of another new resident, Dan (James Caan).

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say : Not yet rated
Kids say ( 1 ):

Just like the card game that brings its characters together, this run-of-the-mill film could have an upside: providing a bridge for conversation between generations. But while high schoolers might get a kick out of Queen Bees' "Mean Girls for grandmas" premise, it's also disheartening to realize that we could go through our entire lives only to re-experience the high school social system that most of us couldn't wait to escape. And the "mean girls" angle isn't really as fresh as it feels: Remember when they used to be called "old biddies"? The clique is made up of archetypes straight out of The Golden Girls: snippy, intolerant leader Janet (Jane Curtin), lusty Margo (Ann-Margret), and sweet and sensitive Sally (Loretta Devine). Still, teens might enjoy the fact that Helen's grandson (Matthew Barnes) is her ally, and it's her daughter Laura (Elizabeth Mitchell) who's overbearing and trying to run her mom's life. That role reversal -- seeing the daughter being told to step back and let her mom just live her life -- is a different take.

Director Michael Lembeck is an old hand at TV comedies, with a few children's films in between (The Santa Clause 2 and 3, The Tooth Fairy), so perhaps it's not surprising that his comedy about older adults has a somewhat misleading kiddo-welcoming sheen. The music, the lighting, and the setups all feel family friendly, and the effort does result in a multigenerational film that teens can watch with the grandparents without hitting too much iffy content. But even if you can put aside Grandma calling another woman a "bitch" and the residents of a retirement village behaving more like rabbits than spring chickens, the storyline just doesn't have much to offer children. Though at least they can take away the idea that trying new things can lead to meeting new people.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Queen Bees portrays drinking and drug use. Are they glamorized? Are there realistic consequences? Why does that matter?

  • Romantic comedies about aging people have become more common. Why do you think this genre and this audience were overlooked in the past, and why do you think it might be exploding now?

  • How does Helen rise above the treatment of the Queen Bees? What actionable lessons about dealing with bullies can we take away?

  • Talk about how being open to change and having new experiences can often lead to positive outcomes.

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