Parents' Guide to Reviving Ophelia

Movie NR 2011 92 minutes
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Melissa Camacho By Melissa Camacho , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Teen dating violence makes this a watch-together movie.

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What's the Story?

REVIVING OPHELIA chronicles the lives of two teenagers learning how to cope with issues like violence, sex, and self-esteem. The series stars Rebecca Williams and Carleigh Beverly as Elizabeth and Kelli, two teenage cousins who have grown up sharing everything. When the straight-laced Elizabeth begins a relationship with Mark (Nick Thurston), Kelli begins to suspect that the relationship is becoming abusive. Unfortunately, thanks to Kelli's rebellious nature, neither her mom Le Ann (Kim Dickens) nor her aunt Marie (Jane Kaczmarek) believe her. Throughout it all, Kelli must also work through her own growing pains, and figure out the kind of person she wants to be.

Is It Any Good?

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This thought-provoking movie is inspired by a chapter of psychologist Mary Pipher's best-selling book, Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls. It uses the story of teen abuse to highlight some of the book's assertions, including the theory that young women make sense of who they are based on the cultural expectations placed on them. It also attempts to address how young women try to reject these expectations.

While Pipher's message is sometimes diluted by the show's dramatic plotlines, it succeeds at showing how young women can find themselves in abusive relationships, and how hard it is to break away from them. It also identifies some of the common misconceptions women in abusive relationships have about their role in the abuse. Parents may want to watch this one with their teens, and use it as a way to begin a dialogue with them about some of these issues.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about teenagers, sex, and violence. What kind of pressures do teens face when it comes to making choices about sex? What about tolerating violence? Why are these issues related to a teenager's self-esteem?

  • How does the media contribute to the way teens think about the issues of sex and violence? Parents can check here for information and advice about talking to your kids about some of these topics.

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