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Parents need to know that 1980s classic Say Anything survives as an excellent, coming-of-age movie for teens. Teens-to-be also may enjoy it, but it may not be suitable for them, with its teen drinking, teen sex, profanity (including one "f--k"), and parental betrayal. More than simply a teen film, it boasts fine performances, a lot of humor, and a well-chosen soundtrack. This is a true-to-life depiction of teen life. Both main characters deal with the pain of broken families and oppressive family expectations, which could spark discussion.
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What's the story?
In SAY ANYTHING, a smart, funny story about growing up and struggling with imminent responsibilities, Lloyd (John Cusack) is a teenage kickboxer on no particular career path. Diane (Ione Skye) is a brainiac with an overprotective father (John Mahoney). After graduation, the opposites fall for each other, spend the summer together, and end up making love, the details of which Diane spills to her father. Her father wants more for his daughter than a future with a slacker like Lloyd -- she's set to go to England to study on a fellowship at the end of the summer. Under pressure from her father, Diane breaks up with Lloyd. But when she discovers that her father has been stealing from the retirement home he owns, she reconsiders. Lloyd's the one person she's come to trust.
Is it any good?
A frank portrait of teens on the cusp of adulthood, this movie mines a type of movie that has acquired a (deservedly) negative reputation and comes up with gold. You can call Say Anything a "teen flick," but writer/director Cameron Crowe (Almost Famous) tells a story about people who just happen to be teens. Utilizing stock elements of the genre -- hip soundtrack, slacker kids, and screwed-up families -- Crowe finds the stuff of great drama.
Much of the humor is found in adolescent awkwardness. Viewers can't help but feel Lloyd's angst as he asks Diane out, deals with her father, and evades an overzealous guidance counselor. But the movie's serious themes ring true as well. Diane's father isn't dismissed as a criminal who wants to keep the lovers apart; his stealing is a misguided effort to give his daughter the best of everything. Eric Stoltz (Some Kind of Wonderful) and Lili Taylor round out a superb supporting cast.
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Families can talk about why Diane trusts Lloyd in Say Anything and why Diane's father acts the way he does. Also, how do Diane and Lloyd cope with the stresses of teenage life?
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- In theaters: April 14, 1989
- On DVD or streaming: May 23, 2000
- Cast: Ione Skye, Joan Cusack, John Cusack
- Director: Cameron Crowe
- Studio: Twentieth Century Fox
- Genre: Drama
- Character Strengths: Compassion, Gratitude, Integrity
- Run time: 100 minutes
- MPAA rating: PG-13
- MPAA explanation: mature themes and sexuality
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