Movie review by
Jeffrey M. Anderson, Common Sense Media
Searching Movie Poster Image
Parents recommendPopular with kids
Digital mystery satisfies on technical, emotional levels.
  • PG-13
  • 2018
  • 102 minutes

Parents say

age 12+
Based on 9 reviews

Kids say

age 12+
Based on 18 reviews

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Positive Messages

Movie is all about solving problems, as well as persistence/perseverance in the face of great stress and very little hope. Generosity is a virtue, and better communication between family members is encouraged. Simple "protection" of family members, no matter what they've done wrong, is discouraged.

Positive Role Models & Representations

David Kim is a sympathetic character, a problem solver, a good parent who goes to great lengths to rescue his daughter. He's also a positive, three-dimensional Asian American character. Without giving too much away, Margot performs an act of incredible generosity; it doesn't turn out well for her, but her act is nonetheless seen as admirable.


A main character dies of cancer. A teen girl goes missing. A car is found in a lake (there's the possibility of a body inside). A man punches a teen boy. Bloody/bruised face. Spoken reference to a jaw being broken. Two men fight/brawl. A man appears to shoot himself on a video. Spoken references to beating, etc. Arguing and yelling. Threats.


Brief sex-related dialogue, sex-related material. Brief, wrongful assumption that an uncle is having a sexual relationship with his teen niece.


A spoken and written use of "f---ing," plus uses of "s--t," "ass," "damn," "hella," "perv," and "oh my God" as an exclamation.


Several tech brand names are mentioned and shown throughout: Internet Explorer, YouTube, eBay, Google, Facebook, Mircosoft, Apple iPhone, Uber, FaceTime, Gmail, Yahoo, Venmo, Norton Antivirus, etc. An Apple computer is turned on, with the familiar "gong" sound and logo. Pokémon is shown and mentioned.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

A secondary character seems to be something of a drug dealer. A jar full of pot is shown. Teen drug use is inferred. Photo of teen drug use. Pipe smoking.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Searching is a mystery starring John Cho about a missing teen that's presented entirely through/on computer screens (similar to the horror movie Unfriended). It's cleverly constructed and emotionally satisfying, as well as diverse and culturally relevant. Expect brief on-screen fighting, arguing, and yelling, as well as offscreen and verbal references to violence. A main character dies of cancer. There's a bit of sex-related dialogue and some sexual references, and there's a brief, wrongful theory that an uncle is having some kind of sexual relationship with his teen niece. Language includes one "f---ing" and uses of "perv." A secondary character appears to be a drug dealer, supplying pot (offscreen) to a teen girl. A jar filled with pot is shown, teen drug use is inferred, and there's pipe smoking. Many tech brand names are shown throughout (Google, Facebook, YouTube, etc.), but all in service to the story. Underlying everything are messages of perseverance and the need for stronger communication among family members, as well as the notion of the internet as both a useful and a dangerous place.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 11-year-old Written bynetryder7 September 2, 2018

Good for Teens

My husband, myself and my 11 year old went to see this movie today. We enjoyed it!!! There’s some
mild drug reference and the use of the F word (once) but it te... Continue reading
Adult Written bycarrier313 September 2, 2018

Classic Whodunnit with Social Media Twist!

Really good... worth a theatre ticket!
Yes, some adult topics (shows weed/smoking, alluded to child sexual abuse, malicious social media comments) but nothing s... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byFunnyGoblin888 November 6, 2020

Wow, I am literally blown away! So amazing!

THE BEST MOVIE EVER. It teaches such a great lesson to kids and adults too. Parents learn that it is important to know your child. Teens learn that you should a... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byHenry Hill15 September 2, 2018

Thematic material, moderate drug and sex references and infrequent strong language

Language -
There is one verbal use of 'f*ck' and a couple written uses of bad language.
Drugs -
there are references to a character using pot.
Sex... Continue reading

What's the story?

In SEARCHING, David Kim (John Cho) has a happy family. He enjoys watching his daughter Margot grow up, posting pictures and videos of her to social media. As Margot hits her teenage years (played by Michelle La), David finds himself raising her alone, and she seems increasingly distant. Finally one day she simply disappears after a supposed study group, and David hits the internet to try to find clues about where she might have gone. Her friends don't seem to know much, but he discovers that she's also been skipping her piano lessons and pocketing the money. A detective (Debra Messing) comes on the case, and time seems to be running out. Can David spot the final clue that will piece everything together?

Is it any good?

Perhaps inspired by the success of 2014's Unfriended, this mystery ventures in fresh, new directions while being superbly constructed, emotionally satisfying, and culturally relevant. The debut feature of director Aneesh Chaganty, who also wrote the screenplay with producer Sev Ohanian, Searching is notable for focusing on a Korean American family without making an issue of it. It frankly doesn't matter what culture the Kim family comes from (other than in the valuable representation sense, of course). What matters is what would matter to any human being when a family member is in trouble.

In the lead role, Cho does amazing things, performing largely by himself and within unconventional cameras and camera setups, reaching new emotional depths. The movie's filming techniques do recall some of the more effective things used in Unfriended and Unfriended: Dark Web, but Searching expands the genre's toolbox, going further in both time and space. And the screenplay, while suffering a few small, easily forgivable shaky spots, is a thing of beauty, furthering the story with desperate, constant propulsion, and dropping little clues in the most innocuous places. When it all comes together, it's with a most pleasurable snap.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about Searching's depiction of violence. How much is shown, and how much is kept offscreen? Are these incidents equally effective? Why or why not?

  • How are drugs depicted? Are they glamorized in any way? Are there consequences to teens using drugs? Why does that matter?

  • The movie shows the internet to be both useful and dangerous. How can we choose what's safe -- and what isn't?

  • Margot's act of generosity turns out badly, but how does the movie view her act? Is she still admirable? Should generosity be viewed as risky?

  • How do the characters demonstrate perseverance? Why is that an important character strength?

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