Parents' Guide to Secrets of War

Movie NR 2014 95 minutes
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Barbara Shulgasser-Parker By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Moving subtitled film shows war through a child's eyes.

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age 10+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In a small Dutch village in 1943, SECRETS OF WAR follows young Tuur as he slowly realizes his parents are Resistance fighters while the family of his best friend, Lambert, are Nazis. The boys befriend a new girl at school, but she ultimately favors Tuur and reveals to him a secret -- that she is a Jew, hidden by a local farmer. Lambert's jealousy leads him to inadvertently expose her, which also exposes Tuur's family and the entire underground Resistance in the village. Wearing the Hitler Youth uniform to please his father, Lambert remains loyal to his friend, helping Tuur's family escape across the border.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say : Not yet rated
Kids say ( 2 ):

This film movingly depicts how war shatters the innocence of two friends divided by their parents' conflicting allegiances. Secrets of War subtly compares the exclusionary behavior and misunderstandings of childhood to the same actions magnified in adulthood. Director Dennis Bots illuminates the way bullying turns into totalitarianism and how ignorance transforms into murderous nationalism. This is an intense look at war through a child's eyes; older kids and parents will find lots to discuss and may be inspired to learn more about the topic.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about WWII. What do you know about this time period? What did you learn from Secrets of War? How can you learn more?

  • During times of war, seemingly petty differences can have life-and-death consequences. How did ideology and politics affect the friendship between Tuur and Lambert?

  • Why do you think the filmmaker chose to tell a story of war and bigotry through children's eyes?

  • How do the characters in Secrets of War demonstrate integrity and courage? Why are these important character strengths?

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