Parents' Guide to See You Next Christmas

Movie NR 2021 99 minutes
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Barbara Shulgasser-Parker By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Holiday romcom lacks much cheer; drinking, language.

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What's the Story?

Thirtysomethings Annie (Christine Weatherup) and Tom Clark (Vin Vescio) are the happy couple who met in high school and think of themselves as soul mates. In SEE YOU NEXT CHRISTMAS, every year they throw a holiday party called Clarkmas. Natalie (Elizabeth Guest) is offered as the hopelessly single, shy awkward loner who has just moved to town attending for the first time. She meets Logan (AJ Meijer) of the checkered romantic past, and the two immediately begin insulting each other, a supposed indication of attraction. They also start kissing but return to fighting, blowing up the connection. Year after year they meet at the party as their circumstances change: Natalie finishes her psych degree, Logan has a girlfriend, Natalie shows up with her fiancé. At one gathering they stop attacking each other long enough to start seeing each other for a few months but, we learn, Logan ghosts Natalie, so Natalie gets herself engaged. Will they ever get together?

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say : Not yet rated
Kids say : Not yet rated

Armed with an amusing premise, See You Next Christmas has its heart in the right place. There's a wistful emphasis on the difficulty some young people have transitioning to "adulting," as one character puts it, a passage many of the self identified millennials portrayed here would prefer to put off longer. In its approval of relationships and commitment, the movie offers a number of instances of crackling dialogue and insightful interactions, but they're the rarity. The movie feels half-done, as if a bit more thought, or a higher budget, or a longer shoot could have solved some of its problems, which include a reliance on the kind of forced rudeness a scriptwriter might find funny while writing, but that falls dead on the screen. It's not a good comic foundation. The writer-director doesn't realize that Logan and Natalie are the dynamic characters the audience wants to watch as they grow and change, yet Tom and Annie, more stable and thus far less interesting, are given lots of screen time.

The characters are confusing, too. As first introduced, Natalie seems shy and awkward, overrun by her mother and uncomfortable in her own skin, but the moment she meets Logan, she's a gleeful attack dog, spewing wisecracks with a seemingly out-of-character confidence. Logan is just as rude and aggressive. The two display a stunning lack of empathy, the kind that normal people pull out in normal interactions as they politely allow others to do something as radical as finish their sentences. So the bits of clever dialogue that come from nowhere are a surprise. The directing is just as shaky. Sometimes the actors, who seem mostly inexperienced at best, are just awkwardly lined up facing the camera when a scene begins. The best performance here by far is given by Mark Evan Jackson (The Good Place and Brooklyn Nine-Nine) as a police officer, whose riveting scene lasts only a few minutes. Perhaps everyone else involved with the film will get better with more practice.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the movie views commitment. How do Tom and Annie, a happily married couple, set the tone for stability in life?

  • Here, people think it's okay to say whatever critical thing pops into their heads. Do you think this works as a comic theme? In your experience are people a bit more sensitive to others than the characters portrayed here?

  • Why do you think people put up walls to potential friends and partners? What are the characters shown here trying to protect themselves from?

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