Sell/Buy/Date

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Sell/Buy/Date
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A Lot or a Little?
The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Sell/Buy/Date is a documentary about Sarah Jones' same-named one-woman show about sex work. The play became the center of online controversy after some sex workers saw Jones as exploiting them and their stories. So, for the film, Jones decided to interview a diverse range of people in the sex industry about their opinions and experiences. Her approach involves clear examples of communication, curiosity, courage, compassion, and empathy. Unsurprisingly, discussions about sex and sex work are a big part of the film (though nothing ever gets too graphic), as are discussions about sexual violence, coercion, and trafficking. Swear words ("f--k," "s--t," and more) are used, and there's some drinking and smoking.
What's the Story?
SELL/BUY/DATE is an unorthodox documentary about and adaptation of comedian/playwright Sarah Jones' same-named one-woman show about the sex industry. The play earned the ire of many sex workers due to concerns about appropriation and exploitation. Faced with the prospect of turning the show into a film, Jones and her group of entertaining alter-egos travel across the country to learn more about sex work and how it impacts Jones' own life, as well as the entire globe.
Is It Any Good?
Sell/Buy/Date tries to do something different with the documentary format, and, for the most part, it works. The film is at its strongest when it allows those who are the most impacted by Jones' one-woman show to speak. The film provides a platform not only for Jones to save herself from getting canceled in real life, but also -- and more importantly -- for people who work in the sex industry to share their experiences. The film's most poignant stories come from women of color, including trans women of color, who've had to sell their bodies out of a necessity fueled by the racist and sexist systems that most developed nations depend on in their exploitation of natural resources. It's sobering to learn just how intertwined the plight and exploitation of women of color is with the capitalist systems that govern our lives.
Just as poignant is when Jones finally gets to the root of why she wanted to investigate the lives of sex workers in the first place: her sister's tragic experiences. It's expected that Jones would come to a conclusion at the end of the film, but her conclusion feels more like the thesis of what the film should have been about from the outset. The film she ended up making feels more like background research for a documentary that could have delved even further into the exploitation of women of color, which would allow viewers to digest more about how we as a society could possibly end this practice of harming women. But as it stands, Sell/Buy/Date is intriguing, educational, and eye-opening while also serving as a vehicle for Jones to showcase her tremendous talent for becoming completely realized characters.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the controversy surrounding Jones' original Sell/Buy/Date stage show. Do you understand the issues in play? How could you find out more?
What does Jones learn about the role that racism and sexism play in the sex industry? What about capitalism?
How does Jones demonstrate character strengths such as courage, compassion, empathy, and communication? What does she learn about herself while making the movie?
Movie Details
- In theaters: October 14, 2022
- On DVD or streaming: October 14, 2022
- Cast: Sarah Jones, Rosario Dawson, Bryan Cranston
- Director: Sarah Jones
- Studios: Cinedigm Entertainment Group, Fandor
- Genre: Documentary
- Topics: Activism
- Character Strengths: Communication, Compassion, Courage, Curiosity, Empathy
- Run time: 97 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: December 3, 2022
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