Sense and Sensibility

Movie review by
Ellen MacKay, Common Sense Media
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Parents recommendPopular with kids
A lush and witty adaptation of Jane Austen's novel.
  • PG
  • 1995
  • 136 minutes

Parents say

age 11+
Based on 9 reviews

Kids say

age 10+
Based on 15 reviews

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Positive Messages

The importance of family is shown through example, as the sisters face numerous crises of the heart. Discretion is shown to be more favorable than gossip, as the evils of gossip are shown through the behavior of some of the characters. The powerful nature of love is a strong theme, as are empathy and integrity.

Positive Role Models & Representations

For the most part, Elinor maintains a great deal of discretion and reserve in the face of financial and emotional difficulties troubling both her and her sisters.


Tame discussions of characters who leave town when their lovers become pregnant. Intense discussions of poetic love, exemplified in Shakespeare's sonnets and in the intensity of the character Marianne.


In one scene, a female dog is referred to as a "bitch."

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Characters drink wine at dinner and at social occasions; during one dinner, an older couple drinks wine and acts intoxicated as they giggle and gossip and make jokes at the expense of one of the characters.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that there's nothing really objectionable for younger kids in Sense and Sensibility, but the plot may be too sophisticated for them to follow, and the film features some emotional intensity. Characters drink wine at dinner and on social occasions; during one dinner, an older couple drinks wine and acts intoxicated as they giggle and gossip and make jokes at the expense of one of the characters. There also are tame discussions of characters who leave town when their lovers become pregnant. In one scene, a female dog is referred to as a "bitch."

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 10-year-old Written byIleneFar May 6, 2019

Too Much Sex and Drinking, But Stunning

One of the great romances, but WAY too much sex and drinking. No sex shown, but there's kissing. I would NEVER let my daughter see this!!
Adult Written bydramakidmom May 2, 2019

Great theatrical movie!

I think this is a great movie to introduce kids to Jane Austen. A bit of humor, heartache, drama, and love. Love the cast, the setting, and the music.
Teen, 14 years old Written byultimatetvlover_06 April 18, 2021

Good for All ages, however if not interested in Period Dramas it might be boring to some.

Great for all Ages! Great cast, and great film. A little slow at first, but it picks up. Definitely recommend if you like the book, romance movies, or period dr... Continue reading
Kid, 12 years old August 5, 2020
I love watching movies based on Jane Austen books! This movie is wonderful, and I've watched it at least three times, and I'm sure I'll watch it... Continue reading

What's the story?

Directed by Ang Lee, Emma Thompson's adaptation of the Jane Austen novel follows the Dashwood sisters as they try to redeem a lost fortune by marrying well and end up finding love. Sensible Elinor and sensuous Marianne are left impoverished after their father's death because the law awards their estate to a half-brother. They retreat to a little cottage by the sea and hope to marry well. This is a trying task, however, since Elinor (Emma Thompson) falls for a young man who is previously engaged, and Marianne (Kate Winslet) is literally swept off her feet by a handsome rogue. Despite their marked temperamental differences, Marianne and Elinor are devoted to one another. As they find love, lose it, and find it again, sentimental Marianne learns the value of restraint, and sensible Elinor discovers that composure melts in passion's flame. And, as in many Austen novels, the sisters are plagued by gossipy neighbors and selfish in-laws, but through it all they manage to handle challenges with grace and humor.

Is it any good?

What makes this adaptation so endearing is its loving depiction of the Dashwood family as a high-spirited and supportive clan. Sense and Sensibility shows how women in upper-class Georgian England, though privileged, had relatively few choices in life. The beautiful, humorous movie creates a buzz of excitement around the Dashwood sisters' romantic intrigue. Some of the characters you'll love to hate (the Dashwoods' horrible sister-in-law and gloating Miss Steele), and others you'll absolutely adore (little Margaret Dashwood, the future pirate).

Romantics and anyone with a penchant for Jane Austen will have a ball with this film. For many fans, this a favorite to be watched repeatedly. For them, the movie strikes the same wistful chord as the blockbuster Titanic, and it even ends happily!

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about why "costume dramas," such as Sense and Sensibility, are popular. Did you enjoy seeing how people once lived, dressed, and interacted? Do you think all people living in Georgian England enjoyed such clothes, balls, servants, and wealth? Why aren't more films about the far more numerous common people of the time? This also may be a good time for parents to introduce Austen's books to their tweens and teens.

  • What do you see as the challenges of adapting a Jane Austen novel into a film?

  • How are the values of the time conveyed in this movie, and how are they similar to and different from contemporary values, in terms of love, money, and family?

  • How do the characters in Sense and Sensibility demonstrate empathy and integrity? Why are these important character strengths?

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