Parents' Guide to Separation

Movie R 2021 107 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Jeffrey M. Anderson By Jeffrey M. Anderson , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Dull, familiar horror movie about divorce and death.

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age 12+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In SEPARATION, unemployed comic book creator Jeff (Rupert Friend) is going through a messy divorce from Maggie (Mamie Gummer). Maggie wants full custody of their young daughter, Jenny (Violet McGraw), and Maggie's influential father, Rivers (Brian Cox), who thinks Jeff is an unfit dad, agrees. But Maggie is abruptly killed in a hit-and-run car accident, and Jeff finds himself fully in charge of Jenny. He dearly loves her, but even with help from admiring, encouraging babysitter Samantha (Madeline Brewer), Jeff still struggles. Things become even harder when an unseen, possibly malevolent presence in the house makes itself known.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say : Not yet rated
Kids say ( 2 ):

This "imaginary friend" horror movie takes its time and tries hard to focus on relationships and emotions, but the characters still feel somehow stiff and flat, as if they were only half-finished. Coming from the director of the passable horror movie The Boy and its awful sequel, Brahms: The Boy II, Separation feels as if it genuinely wants to delve into the emotions surrounding divorce and death, which is something that this genre usually doesn't bother with. Characters talk about their feelings, but no one ever seems to really listen. It's as if the actors are merely practicing reading their lines back and forth at one another.

Separation includes some interesting, creepy imagery via the movie's comic book art and several related puppets and sculptures, but it's still very low on scares. When the monster finally appears, looking like a scary clown, its design is all too similar to so many other monsters -- doing crab walks, twisting its head around, making clicking noises, etc. It's old hat. If that's not blah enough, the movie adds a seemingly random, last-minute twist that feels cheap and somewhat insulting, as well as one of those post-credits "buttons" that sets up a possible sequel. It's a shame that a movie that could have been an ambitious attempt to try something new ends up devolving into something so lazy and familiar.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Separation's violence. How did it make you feel? How graphic or gory is the movie? Could the story have been told with less violence?

  • How scary is the movie? What's the appeal of horror movies? Why do people sometimes like being scared?

  • How does the movie deal with divorce and the death of a loved one? What kinds of things do the characters say to each other that might be helpful?

  • What is ayahuasca, and how does it fit in with the story? Is this drug glamorized? Are there consequences for using it? Why does that matter?

  • Have you ever had an imaginary friend? Was your friend scary? Friendly? Why do you think so many imaginary friends are portrayed as scary in movies?

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