
Want more recommendations for your family?
Sign up for our weekly newsletter for entertainment inspiration
Served Like a Girl
By Jeffrey Anderson,
Common Sense Media Reviewer
Common Sense Media Reviewers
Inspiring documentary about courageous female veterans.

A Lot or a Little?
What you will—and won't—find in this movie.
Where to Watch
Videos and Photos
Served Like a Girl
Community Reviews
There aren't any parent reviews yet. Be the first to review this title.
What's the Story?
In SERVED LIKE A GIRL, several female veterans from various branches of the military get together to participate in the Ms. Veteran America pageant competition. The event is intended to raise awareness of the 55,000 female veterans in the United States who are homeless; per the movie, many veteran services help men only and refuse aid to women. The featured women have all dealt with a horrible irony: After serving their country, they returned home to struggle with illness, poverty, homelessness, divorce, and many other problems, with no help -- except from each other.
Is It Any Good?
It's not polished, but Lysa Heslov's documentary fully celebrates the courage of its featured women -- more off the battlefield than on -- and the result is a strong, teary, heartfelt film. Served Like a Girl interviews Army veteran Jaspen Boothe, who founded the Ms. Veteran America competition, as well as its first winner, Air Force vet Denyse Gordon. It focuses on five new contestants for the 2015 crown, including Navy vet Hope Garcia, who suffered sexual assaults, was homeless, and shares custody of her children with her ex-husband. Army vet Marissa Strock lost her lower legs but still loves shopping for shoes, even though she can't wear her favorite sparkly high heels. Navy vet Rachel Engler was a former NFL cheerleader and fell ill after her service with a chronic neuromuscular illness but continued with her love of dancing.
Heslov interviews the women in casual settings -- just hanging out in doorways or in kitchens, with no artificial "talking heads." That allows Army vet Nichole Alred's mother, a strong supporter of her daughter, to becomes a colorful character as well. The women's stories could easily inspire outrage, but, at the same time, they're also amazing, tragic, and awe-inspiring.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the women featured in Served Like a Girl. Are they role models? Why? What's inspiring about them? What are their flaws?
How is violence handled in the movie? Is hearing about violent acts less upsetting than seeing them? Why or why not?
How does the movie show the value of courage and perseverance? Why are those important character strengths?
The Served Like a Girl website offers ideas for things people can do to help homeless female military veterans. What else can be done? How can civilians influence the way the military views and treats women who serve?
How is sex addressed in the movie?
Movie Details
- In theaters: August 25, 2017
- On DVD or streaming: November 7, 2017
- Cast: Jaspen Boothe , Nichole Alred , Rachel Engler
- Director: Lysa Heslov
- Studio: Entertainment Studios Motion Pictures
- Genre: Documentary
- Topics: Great Girl Role Models
- Character Strengths: Courage , Perseverance
- Run time: 103 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: June 20, 2023
Did we miss something on diversity?
Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in media. That's why we've added a new "Diverse Representations" section to our reviews that will be rolling out on an ongoing basis. You can help us help kids by suggesting a diversity update.
Suggest an Update
Where to Watch
Our Editors Recommend
Common Sense Media's unbiased ratings are created by expert reviewers and aren't influenced by the product's creators or by any of our funders, affiliates, or partners.
See how we rate