Parents' Guide to She Is the Ocean

Movie NR 2020 99 minutes
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Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 8+

Girl-power docu offers soothing assurance and eco plea.

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What's the Story?

SHE IS THE OCEAN introduces nine incredible women whose love for the ocean has transformed their lives. Surfer Keana Kennelly talks about the challenge she faced as a woman pursuing a male-oriented sport -- and then, after she broke in, her difficulty in landing sponsors who deemed her not feminine enough. Conservationist Ocean Ramsey swims with sharks and is dedicated to overturning the idea that they want to kill humans. And Sylvia Earle is an underwater explorer who became the first female chief scientist of the U.S. National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration. Woven in among these stories is that of young Indonesian competitive surfer Cinta Hansel, who dreams of conquering Hawaii's dangerous Pipeline. Whether it's the thrill of waves to conquer, sea life to protect, or finding a sense of calm and peace, these women from around the world share their symbiotic relationship with the sea.

Is It Any Good?

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Oceanic cinematography is art, and the profiles of accomplished women are poetry in this soothing and inspiring documentary. It revels in the gorgeousness and variety of nature's enormous pool and its inspiring and gentle message. Surf film enthusiasts will likely enjoy She Is the Ocean more than those expecting a more traditional documentary, because it doesn't follow the usual beats. While it definitely has messages about activism, there's no sense of urgency, and it's a bit difficult to imagine a setting where you'd sit down and watch it. It feels more like the kind of thing you'd watch while taking a break at a science museum or that might be running in the background at a dive shop.

The film's premise is to show how women are analagous to the ocean, mighty with a mysterious depth. That crunchy concept may be a little too ethereal for most, and the movie's pacing flows like a stream rather than pounding waves. But it works in at least one regard. The gorgeous shots of barrels, swells, underwater ballet, swimming with sharks, paddling alongside whales, and cliff diving, paired with each woman telling her story in a relaxing voice, creates a calming Zen experience. It's almost like a perfect bedtime story, whispering to our young girls: "Embrace your sweet dreams; you got this."

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about their own relationship with the ocean, if they have one. If you haven't had any/much experience with the ocean, what do you think it would be like?

  • Do you consider these women role models? Why or why not? Would you call this a feminist film?

  • Does this movie promote activism? Does it motivate you to take action? How does it compare to other documentaries you've seen?

  • How are courage, communication, perseverance, and gratitude demonstrated? What other character strengths did you notice, and why are they important?

  • What does Cinta Hansel mean when she says, "My heart was pumping so hard, but that made me braver"?

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