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Classic British comedy challenges gender stereotypes; sex.
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Shirley Valentine
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What's the Story?
In SHIRLEY VALENTINE, with her children all grown up and her husband working, Shirley (Pauline Collins) a bored, middle-aged housewife, feels a lack of excitement in her daily life. When her best friend, Jane (Alison Steadman) wins a holiday for two to Greece, Shirley agrees to go with her. There she rediscovers herself, regaining her confidence, and a desire to live her dream life.
Is It Any Good?
This classic BAFTA-nominated British movie is an empathetic nod to generations of women -- and men -- who have woken up one morning to find their life isn't what they thought it would be. Done with a humorous tone, it encourages the audience to follow their dreams and never-give-up. There's also strong messages about the changing female dynamics of the 1980s, when societal expectations were for women to just be content with a house, husband, and a family. Shirley's character breaks these stereotypes as she ignores the opinions of her husband and children and follows her unaccomplished childhood dreams.
Taking up the same role she played in Willy Russell's play version, Collins is excellent as the titular Shirley Valentine. Breaking the fourth wall -- turning to the camera and addressing the audience directly -- is always a risk on the big screen. But Collins is so familiar with the material, she does it seamlessly. This remains a funny, yet emotive, look at entering middle age and getting to know oneself again.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about gender stereotypes in Shirley Valentine. How have societal expectations of women changed over the last 40 years? Do you think there are still issues we need to address? If so, what are they?
Discuss the character of Shirley. What character strengths does she display? Why are these such important attributes to have?
Do you think Shirley made the right decision going to Greece and refusing to return to Liverpool? Why is it important to chase your dreams?
Do you think there's potential for a sequel to this movie? If so, what do you think would happen?
Movie Details
- In theaters : August 30, 1989
- On DVD or streaming : May 1, 2007
- Cast : Pauline Collins , Tom Conti , Julia McKenzie
- Director : Lewis Gilbert
- Studio : Paramount Pictures
- Genre : Comedy
- Topics : Friendship , Holidays
- Character Strengths : Courage , Curiosity
- Run time : 108 minutes
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- Last updated : December 5, 2025
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