Parents' Guide to Shotgun Wedding

Movie R 2023 100 minutes
Shotgun Wedding Movie Poster: Jennifer Lopez, looking disheveled, holds a gun over her shoulder, with Josh Duhamel, also disheveled, behind her

Common Sense Media Review

Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Lopez/Duhamel action romcom is a banger; cursing, violence.

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Why Age 15+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 16+

Based on 2 parent reviews

age 12+

Based on 8 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In SHOTGUN WEDDING, Darcy (Jennifer Lopez) and Tom (Josh Duhamel)'s dream destination island wedding in the Philippines starts starts on shaky ground when Tom becomes a groomzilla and Darcy tries to ward off clashes with family members. When a band of pirates storms the ceremony and takes the wedding guests hostage, Darcy and Tom must work together to save themselves, their family and friends, and their future union. The cast also includes Jennifer Coolidge, Cheech Marin, Sônia Braga, D'Arcy Carden, and Lenny Kravitz.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say ( 8 ):

Director Jason Moore and writer Mark Hammer craft a laugh-out-loud modern-day screwball romance with guns, grenades, and a very memorable use of a hair extension. If you squint, you could almost pretend that the rapid-fire dialogue is being delivered by Cary Grant and Irene Dunn. But, really, there's no need for that because Duhamel and Lopez banter and bicker at their best, likely leaving viewers in stitches. This is a mature love story (and thank you, JLo, for playing a character who says she's over 50 and then struts her stuff to show that years don't make you "less than" in any way), and the language, drinking, violence, and casual conversations reinforce that it isn't intended for kids. That said, it's a crowd-pleasing comedy that will probably entertain a wide range of ages, from older teens to grandparents.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the diverse portrayals in Shotgun Wedding. Why does representation matter?

  • Deaths and serious injuries are caused more by the aspirational main characters than the villains. How does that compare to other action or romantic comedies you've seen? How is the violence used for laughs? Does that affect its impact?

  • Which characters demonstrate teamwork? Why is that an important character strength?

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Shotgun Wedding Movie Poster: Jennifer Lopez, looking disheveled, holds a gun over her shoulder, with Josh Duhamel, also disheveled, behind her

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