Parents' Guide to Show Me Love

Movie NR 1999 86 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Renee Schonfeld By Renee Schonfeld , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Poignant subtitled story about two teen girls in love.

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Why Age 15+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 14+

Based on 2 parent reviews

age 11+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In Amal, a small town in Sweden, lonely Agnes (Rebecka Liljeberg) is celebrating her 16th birthday; beautiful and popular Elin (Alexandra Dahlström) is bored and looking for excitement. A mean prank brings the two girls together. Amidst the turmoil, insecurity, and scariness of growing up, they experience the consequences of being different, the courage it takes to be true to themselves, and the sweetness of first love. Their families and friends respond to Agnes and Elin's journey in a variety of ways, all reflecting a naturalness and integrity that makes the film feel authentic and relevant.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say ( 2 ):

A huge box office success in Sweden (where it's known by its original title, F--king Amal) this movie (with English subtitles) treats adolescence with tenderness and respect. The story is simple; the characters are beautifully drawn and well acted. The delicate subject matter -- coming of age along with early awareness and exploration of sexual identity -- should resonate with thoughtful teens and their families.

Though the movie hasn't been rated by the MPAA, the film contains strong language and deals with sexual situations presented in a way that assumes maturity and compassion.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the effects of bullying and teasing. Have you ever been made fun of or embarrassed by others? What did you do? Does this movie portray the effect of bullying accurately? How can you express your beliefs without being hurtful to others?

  • What are your feelings about movies from other countries? How are the Swedish kids portrayed differently than the kids in your community? How are they similar?

  • Does this movie feel truthful to you? How do the filmmakers make it feel real? Does it change any of your opinions about kids who are different?

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