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Sing Me a Song
By Sandie Angulo Chen,
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Thoughtful, beautifully shot docu about influence of tech.

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What's the Story?
SING ME A SONG begins with segments from documentarian Thomas Balmès' previous feature, 2013's Happiness, which followed 8-year-old monk Peyangki as he prayed, studied, and awaited the arrival of electricity, cell towers, and Wi-Fi in his rural Bhutanese village. He's shown going to sleep as a boy -- and when he wakes up, the movie switches to footage of him 10 years later, now an 18-year-old. He's in the same room but a remarkably different world: Now all the people -- even young monks -- are constantly using their smartphones. The monks in training are reciting their prayers, but they're also scrolling, watching, and even playing on their phones. Peyangki, who was once considered a reincarnated lama, is far from dedicated to his religious studies; he wants to rush back to his room and text/talk to his girlfriend Ugyen over WeChat. He wants to save money to go visit her and possibly even leave monastic life for her -- whereas Ugyen, who's a hostess at a karaoke bar, is keeping big secrets: She's a single mother to a toddler girl, and she's planning to leave Bhutan.
Is It Any Good?
Balmès chronicles Peyangki's youth and relative innocence in order to thoughtfully explore universal themes about coming of age, the influence of technology, and first love. It's brilliant of the director to begin with footage from Happiness, not only to orient those who are unfamiliar with the first documentary but also to remind everyone of how quiet the village used to be (at the time, Peyangki spent his free time running around, singing, and making himself a flower crown). Fast-forward a decade, and the monastery and other buildings are still there, but everyone is glued to their phones. It would be simplistic to call the movie a cautionary tale, because Balmès doesn't judge Peyangki for his actions; he just shows how incongruous the current behavior is from his past and the path set before him. Some of the film's most revelatory scenes aren't between Peyangki and Ugyen (this isn't really a love story, although romance is certainly a major element) but between Peyangki and a younger monk in his group at the monastery.
The moments between Peyangki and his younger monk friends are poignant and brutally honest. The older monks gently lecture Peyangki to no avail, but when a younger peer asks him to reconsider leaving the monastery, it's remarkably effective. The cinematography of the monastery's mountainside setting is gorgeous, highlighting the unique beauty of a place nearly lost in time. When the action switches to Bhutan's capital city, Thimphu, the shots are quicker, the sounds louder, and the setting crowded. Peyangki arrives in the big city to see whether he has a future with Ugyen, and he quickly realizes that life, love, and the future aren't what he imagined. This is a contemplative film with plenty of worthy themes to discuss, and it cements Balmès as one of the most interesting and globally minded documentarians working today.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the impact of technology and screen time on the people highlighted in Sing Me a Song. How does social media affect Peyangki? What about the other monks?
What do you consider the character strengths displayed by various people in the documentary?
Discuss the romantic relationship in the film. What do you think about how it developed? Is it relatable how the romance develops via text and video chat?
What do you think happens next? Why do you think the director ended the movie the way he did?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: January 1, 2021
- Director: Thomas Balmes
- Studio: Gravitas Ventures
- Genre: Documentary
- Topics: Friendship
- Character Strengths: Perseverance
- Run time: 100 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Award: Common Sense Selection
- Last updated: June 20, 2023
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