Parents' Guide to Sitting in Bars with Cake

Movie PG-13 2023 159 minutes
Sitting in Bars with Cake: Yara Shahidi and Odessa A’zion star as best friends.

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Jennifer Green By Jennifer Green , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Well-acted tearjerker has language, drugs, sex.

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What's the Story?

Jane (Yara Shahidi) and Corinne (Odessa A'zion) have been best friends since childhood and now room together in Los Angeles in SITTING IN BARS WITH CAKE. Outgoing Corinne hopes to become a talent agent, like her boss Benita (Bette Midler), at an agency where shy Jane works in the mailroom. Jane's parents (Adina Porter and Navid Negahban) expect her to become a lawyer, but her passion is baking. Hoping to see her break out of her shell and find her own path, Corinne pushes Jane to take cakes to bars all over LA, where she might also meet a man. Before they can get through their 50-cake plan, Corinne is diagnosed with a brain tumor. Jane offers to care for her, despite the misgivings of Corinne's parents (Ron Livingston and Martha Kelley). But her condition progressively worsens.

Is It Any Good?

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An intentionally tear-jerking tale about a vivacious young woman's untimely terminal illness, this film finds its footing only once the illness is discovered. Before that, Sitting in Bars with Cake's first 25-ish minutes come across as a comedy without any real depth or purpose, just beautiful people having fun. The film has some other inconsistencies, like an underused star (Bette Midler) and secondary characters with no definition (Are the ladies in the friend group even given names? In contrast, Livingston's fix-it dad, who can't fix his daughter, is a more meaningful presence). Cutting down on that first quarter could have shortened the film, allowing the latter half room to breathe rather than drag.

Having said that, A'zion and especially Shahidi deliver skilled performances as the film's two leads. A'zion's Corinne reacts to her diagnosis the way many people might want to -- by marching forward and pretending everything's normal. This makes her occasional breakdowns more upsetting. A'zion captures and offers a couple of brutally honest lines about how it feels to be "a sick person," someone everyone feels bad for and whose job becomes accepting people's charity because it makes them feel better. Gorgeous Shahidi, who also executive-produced the film, imbues Jane with a quiet but believable strength and wisdom. She's the real heart of the story. The film is inspired by real-life events (and a cookbook), but the characters and chronologies have been changed for maximum effect.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the inspiration behind Sitting in Bars with Cake. Where can you find more information about the people who inspired the film and which parts are real versus fictionalized?

  • What other films have you watched that involve cooking or baking in the storyline?

  • The film feels like a comedy at first, before the tone changes significantly. What effect does this have on you as a viewer?

  • If you had to cast your own life story, who would you want to play you, and why?

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