So I Married an Axe Murderer

Movie review by
Renee Schonfeld, Common Sense Media
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Quirky '90s comedy with mock horror action, sexuality.
  • PG-13
  • 1993
  • 93 minutes

Parents say

age 10+
Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 13+
Based on 3 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Even harebrained, paranoid people can find happiness.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Send-up of stereotypes: Scottish loudmouth, New Age poet, angry police supervisors, hippie police officer, bumbling hero, ax-wielding maniac. Underlying ridiculous behavior, most characters are well-meaning and loving. No ethnic diversity.


Butchers gleefully chop, cut, and hack at meat. Extended comic climax has ax-wielding maniac chasing and whacking at hero: Characters dangle from roof; many near-hits with ax; scary angles, pounding music. Several groin kicks. A tale is recounted in which a butcher's eyes are cut out.


Except for some passionate kisses, the sexual behavior arises from comic situations. An older woman is sexually aggressive with a young man, kissing him, grabbing his butt. Partial (no frontal) nudity: A man opens a shower door revealing a naked woman; a couple bathes together; pre-sex and post-sex cuddling with some exaggerated sexual noises; a man drops his pants; a towel falls, revealing a nude man shown from the rear.


Occasional obscenities and name-calling: "s--t," "piss," "Jesus Christ," "hell," "bitch," "f--k" twice, "pimp," "horny," "pickle up his ass," "dirt bag." A joke refers to a woman's breast size.


Weekly World News, McEwan's Export ale, Juice Tiger, Fruit Loops, Apple Jacks, Quaker Oats, Fog City Diner (San Francisco).

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Social drinking and some drunkenness. Characters smoke.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that So I Married an Axe Murderer is an early Mike Myers film that intends to capitalize and expand on the humor the comedian developed while a member of the Saturday Night Live cast. Most of the laughs come from solid comic performances (including Myers in dual father and son roles), hip 1993 jokes and parodies, and a climactic farcical battle scene with thrills, spills, and some unhinged ax-whacking. The love story is played for fun as well as romance and has partial nudity (Myers naked from behind, lovers in a bathtub, a woman surprised in the shower); both pre- and post-sex kissing and cuddling; and one scene with a woman reacting to an unseen partner's antics under the covers. Obscenities and insults ("s--t," "piss off," "hell," "f--k," "bitch," "Jesus Christ," "pimp," "pickle up your ass") are often uttered with fervor by a perennially angry, middle-aged Scottish man. Characters drink in social settings and at home, sometimes to excess. Smoking is frequent; in one instance characters might be using marijuana. Generally, the topical humor and situations are intended for teens and adults. Specifically, the final action sequence would be disturbing for kids who don't clearly understand the difference between real and pretend violence. 

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written bycats cats June 13, 2019

Really funny.

It was a really good, funny movie with good acting. So I Married An Axe Murderer follows a man (Mike Myers) who doesn't have a girlfriend but has had sever... Continue reading
Adult Written byAidan S. June 5, 2015

Its as bad as Waynes World

A woman says that they had s** and everything else will go over the kids heads I rate it a 93%
Teen, 15 years old Written bylu lu April 25, 2020
Teen, 13 years old Written bytheboysbros October 4, 2019
2 strong uses of f**k ( its called f**k you) (what the f**k) used both by the main guy.

What's the story?

Poor Charlie (Mike Myers) -- he can't seem to find the right girl. It's especially difficult because he's not really willing to give up being the perennial boy in SO I MARRIED AN AXE MURDERER. He's so terrified of marriage (and growing up) that he complains that the women he goes out with all have either some horrific problem or terrible habit (one of the women even smells like beef vegetable soup). Meanwhile, his out-to-lunch mom's favorite tabloid continues to run stories about a murderous bride who has killed three husbands with an ax on their honeymoons. The two stories merge when Charlie meets the beautiful Harriet (Nancy Travis), a butcher who is passionate about her work. Love is in the air, and Charlie seems as though he might be headed for the altar until ... well, he can't simply ignore those stories, and he can't help noticing clues and personality quirks that make Harriet a prime suspect -- at least, in his mind. Enlisting the help and assurances of his best friend, a Serpico-like undercover policeman, Charlie finally relents. It's only after the wedding that the truth is revealed and Charlie becomes the intended victim of a maniacal killer.

Is it any good?

It's fun seeing the young, talented Mike Myers in two roles: the nebbish hero and his comically abusive, cantankerous dad. Kudos also are deserved for some very clever scenes and comic performances with Anthony LaPaglia and Alan Arkin as prototypical cops and Amanda Plummer as Harriet's devoted sister. Ditto cameo appearances from Phil Hartman, as a deadpan prison guard named "Vicky," Charles Grodin, and comedian Steven Wright. So, though much of the comedy works, it's too bad the film's creators were responsible for coming up with a plot that has no semblance of logic or originality. Director Thomas Schlamme has done his best with the obvious, purposely derivative story. He keeps everything moving, optimizes the bizarro characters, and has some sweet, if offbeat, love scenes between the two leads. The key action sequence is a fierce, slapstick battle between hapless innocent and unhinged killer. This film is intended for audiences who like parody, '90s humor, and ax murderers with a demented sense of purpose.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the appeal of comic horror movies. Does the tone of these films reduce the tension? What techniques do filmmakers use to tell the audience that this is supposed to be funny, not terrifying?

  • This movie sends up (spoofs) several cultural behaviors (the coffee house poetry readings, the supervising police officer, the Scottish family). Name some of the other topical issues that are parodied. Though made in 1993, which of these send-ups is still relevant and funny? Why? 

  • Look up the film term "cameo appearance." In this movie, what were the "cameos"? How do those performances enhance enjoyment of the movie? 

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