Parents' Guide to Someone Like You

Movie PG 2024 118 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 10+

Tame, sentimental Christian romance has cringey elements.

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What's the Story?

SOMEONE LIKE YOU, based on Karen Kingsbury's same-named book, follows 28-year-old Dawson Gage (Jake Allyn), a successful Birmingham, Alabama, architect who has not-so-secretly been in love with his platonic best friend, London Quinn (Sarah Fisher), since they were in high school. After London unexpectedly dies before Dawson could fully profess his love, he learns that her parents never told her a big secret. London's mother, Louise (Lynn Collins), explains that London was conceived through in-vitro fertilization, and, after a difficult pregnancy, she and her husband (Scott Reeves) donated their other frozen embryo, meaning that London could have a genetic sibling. After lots of digging, Dawson tracks down that embryo, now 24-year-old Andi Allen (also Fisher), who lives in Nashville with her parents and younger sister. Dawson confronts Andi at the zoo where she works and references her adoptive family, which confuses Andi. It turns out that the Allens (real-life husband and wife Bart Johnson and Robyn Lively) never told Andi that she wasn't biologically their daughter. After this revelation, a shocked Andi angrily leaves to meet her "real" family and learn about her late sister. While in Nashville, Andi (who has a serious boyfriend on the verge of proposing) grows closer to her biological relatives—and Dawson.

Is It Any Good?

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This faith-based drama is earnest but has some off-putting behavior and lacks romantic chemistry. The story in Someone Like You feels like it would have been better served on television than on the big screen. London and Dawson have a strong, bantery friendship, even though that relationship is explored in only the first quarter of the movie. Once London dies and Dawson starts his obsessive search for her possible IVF sibling, the story glosses over major red flags—like how he has no legal rights to that kind of confidential information, or how him trailing Andi at work for an entire day is stalkerish behavior. The screenplay does include one acknowledgement of the fact that Dawson's instant connection to Andi could seem strange (his business partner says "it's pretty weird"). But Andi is unbelievably dismissive of her Nashville boyfriend (Austin Robert Russell), who was on the verge of proposing—and she's awful to her parents. It's hard to cheer for a romance that seems rooted in grief, constant proximity, and instalove.

Yes, there are some sweet, emotional scenes between Andi and her biological parents, played with appropriate nuance by Collins and Reeves. But for the most part, Andi's motivations are hard to understand after a while, and there are definitely mixed messages about the role of adoptive and biological families in an adult child's life. Other aspects of the story also require so much suspension of disbelief that they further distract from an already cringey romantic premise. Confirmed believers may enjoy how centered the story is in Christian faith, but non-Christians might be puzzled by why nearly every single person in this story is a churchgoer, with the odd exception of a bitter, awkward single older woman who rants to whomever will listen about how human men don't mate for life, like certain animals. Bottom line? This one is only worth watching if you're already a devoted fan of Kingsbury's romances.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Someone Like You portrays the idea of embryo adoption. Is there a political message about the topic embedded in the movie? Is that OK?

  • For those familiar with Karen Kingsbury's books: What do you think of this adaptation? What changes did or didn't you appreciate?

  • This movie is based on Christian fiction. How much do Christianity and faith impact the story? Do you think the movie will appeal to secular audiences?

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