Parents' Guide to Sound of Metal

Movie R 2020 121 minutes
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Jeffrey M. Anderson By Jeffrey M. Anderson , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Powerful, emotional drama about deafness has salty language.

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age 13+

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age 14+

Based on 6 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In SOUND OF METAL, Ruben Stone (Riz Ahmed) is the drummer in the metal band Blackgammon, with his girlfriend Lou (Olivia Cooke) on guitar and shrieking vocals. While setting up for a gig, Ruben experiences a sudden loss of hearing; he can't hear a thing. A doctor tells him that he needs to stay away from loud noises or face losing his hearing for good. Ruben also learns about cochlear implants, which are expensive but could let him hear again. After unwisely faking his way through the gig, Ruben winds up at a special camp for deaf and hard of hearing people that's run by kindly, no-nonsense war veteran Joe (Paul Raci). There, Ruben begins to learn American Sign Language and how to manage his deafness. But he can't stop thinking about the implants and how they could allow him to return to music -- and to Lou.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 3 ):
Kids say ( 6 ):

With its focus on characters, emotions, and ideology, this powerful drama with great performances easily overcomes its few flaws to drum up enormous empathy and heartbreak. The feature directing debut of Darius Marder, who co-wrote The Place Beyond the Pines, Sound of Metal uses a rather drab, realistic palette that matches Ruben's rock-rebel sensibility (his wardrobe consists entirely of battered band-logo shirts and hoodies). There may be one scene too many of handheld cameras capturing moments of brooding. But the actors immerse themselves into the movie's world with total commitment. Ahmed, unsurprisingly, is amazing, though his best work isn't so much the rage that Ruben expresses about his deafness but the earlier scenes of existential terror when he first realizes what's happening to him.

Another standout is Raci, who brings a powerful weight and history to Joe (it turns out that he's an actual veteran and the child of deaf parents, and he plays in a band that performs in ASL). His signing is almost like a dance. Another masterstroke is the movie's sound design, which brilliantly suggests what it might be like in Ruben's head, both muffled and stuffy in the early scenes and then using a buzzing, tinny sound to replicate the effect of the implants. (The movie's title likely has a dual meaning.) The post-implant scenes are the most heartbreaking in Sound of Metal, but its conclusion, both ambiguous and unforgettable, offers an amazing moment of serenity.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Sound of Metal depicts smoking and addiction. How is it presented? Is anything glamorized? Are there realistic consequences? Why is that important?

  • If you don't have firsthand experience with deafness, did the movie impact the way you think or feel about it? If you do, how does it reflect your own experiences and opinions?

  • Why do you think Joe rejects Ruben after Ruben decides to get the cochlear implants? What does Joe mean when he says that deafness isn't something that needs to be "fixed"?

  • How do you feel about the filmmakers' decision to cast a hearing actor to play Ruben?

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