Parents' Guide to Spanglish

Movie PG-13 2004 130 minutes
Spanglish Poster Image

Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Mixed messages wrapped in stale stereotypes.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 13+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 7 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 11 kid reviews

What's the Story?

SPANGLISH centers on Flor (Paz Vega), a single immigrant mother from Mexico who is trying to raise her beautiful daughter, Cristina (Shelbie Bruce). Flor goes to work as a maid for wealthy but kind chef John (Adam Sandler) and his mean-spirited wife Deborah (Téa Leoni). Deborah's daughter, Bernice (Sarah Steele), isn't good enough for her perfectionist mother, who takes over the care and grooming of Cristina while the kind Flor nurses the emotional bruises of the constantly criticized Bernice. Also living at the home is Deborah's mother, Evelyn (Cloris Leachman), who abuses alcohol and frequently points out her daughter's faults. Deborah and John's marriage is in trouble, and John finds himself falling for Flor, who is struggling to learn English and trying to keep her daughter grounded and on track as Deborah continues to spoil the girl.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 7 ):
Kids say ( 11 ):

This movie preys on every known stereotype in its reach for laughter and leaves everyone looking pretty bad. Clichés you'll find in Spanglish: The witchy wife, the drunken mother-in-law, and Sandler's now-stale characterization as a sweet husband who's at the mercy of all the fates around him. Leoni portrays Deborah with brutal coldness, which overshadows any supposed comic relief coming from Evelyn, who's supposed to stand as some sort of moral arbiter. The film is more sympathetic to the characters of Flor and Cristina, who are more aware of what they want in life.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about classism and sexism. What does Spanglish seem to be saying about marriage, mother-daughter relationships, and cultural identity?

  • Deborah and Flor are mothers of teenage daughters. Are they very demanding of them? How do they show that they care about their daughters, or is it difficult to see?

  • The language barrier is an important theme in the film. Do you speak a language other than the one you use every day? Have you ever visited a country where you don't know how to speak the language?

  • Why do you think the movie is called Spanglish? Do you know phrases that mix Spanish and English?

  • Flor wants her daughter, Cristina, to remember her roots and Mexican heritage. How important is it to be proud of your culture and family?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : December 17, 2004
  • On DVD or streaming : April 5, 2005
  • Cast : Adam Sandler , Paz Vega , Tea Leoni
  • Director : James L. Brooks
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Sony Pictures
  • Genre : Comedy
  • Run time : 130 minutes
  • MPAA rating : PG-13
  • MPAA explanation : some sexual content and brief language
  • Last updated : April 17, 2023

Did we miss something on diversity?

Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in media. That's why we've added a new "Diverse Representations" section to our reviews that will be rolling out on an ongoing basis. You can help us help kids by

Spanglish Poster Image

What to Watch Next

Common Sense Media's unbiased ratings are created by expert reviewers and aren't influenced by the product's creators or by any of our funders, affiliates, or partners.

See how we rate