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Standing Up

By Renee Longstreet, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 12+

Insightful, frank look at how two kids survive bullying.

Movie PG 2013 93 minutes
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Based on 2 parent reviews

laetaro17
laetaro17 Adult
March 18, 2021
age 12+

Standing Tough

As a parent, I like how the movie developed from start to end. Older kids would surely find the film very insightful and worth reflecting on. Grace's character looked frail and scared in the beginning, but, thanks to Howie's help and courage, he rubbed off strength and courage to Grace as the film progressed. The kids may have stolen clothes and money, but it couldn't be helped considering their situation. Howie's writing an IOU would especially be recalled in the film's later scenes. This is a story of two kids standing up to bullying and being branded as "goats", and coming out as winners and being braver and stronger than their bullies.
Seeme.ok
Seeme.ok Adult
February 9, 2021
age 12+

Amazing movie

I highly recommend to any kids 12 and up, it was a awesome film!

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Great messages
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What's the Story?

In STANDING UP, two frightened, naked, and friendless summer camp kids, Howie (Chandler Canterbury) and Grace (Annalise Basso) have been left alone in the woods by a group of heartless young attendees of Camp Tall Pine. They're the traditional "goats" in an annual late-night event that is meant only to humiliate and divide. Initially, Howie and Grace feel helpless and ill-equipped to even survive the night, but they're terrified of going back. Finding strength in each other, they determine to escape their tormentors and make their way through the woods to safety on their own. What follows is a series of adventures -- surprising, funny, scary, and ultimately, life-affirming. As inept authorities attempt to trace their steps, Howie and Grace outwit everyone, making friends along the way, and create a true friendship that changes them and how they will forever see the world.

Is It Any Good?

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Sensitively directed by D.J. Caruso, this earnest effort to film a beloved book feels authentic in its portrayal of this traumatic childhood event. The two lead actors are convincing, delivering the goods in subtle ways that show both their individual growth and the growing bond between them. In heartfelt moments that young audiences will certainly relate to, the two kids struggle at first with their role as victims, and later blossom as their journey helps them build confidence, self-respect, and confirms their inherent good values.

Along with Howie and Grace, kids should gain insight into why some people are hurtful, how they themselves might react if they were among the accepted kids, and exactly what makes some of us the designated "goats." Generally, Standing Up is a well-made film, tarnished only by the mostly one-dimensional adult characters and some substandard performances in smaller roles.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Parents and kids can discuss different types of bullying that they've seen at school, on the playground, at work, etc. What are the potential results of standing by and doing nothing? What are the potential results of standing up for those who are being bullied?

  • Talk about some of the illegal and dishonest things that Howie and Grace had to do in order to survive. Were their actions forgivable? Why or why not?

  • Camp staff members talked about the hurtful prank as a tradition. Can you think of other instances of humiliating and mean behavior that might be thought of as traditional in schools, social clubs, or the work place? Is this acceptable? If not, how would you propose ending those activities?

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