Parents' Guide to State Like Sleep

Movie NR 2019 104 minutes
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Jeffrey M. Anderson By Jeffrey M. Anderson , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Violent but dull attempt at a mystery-thriller.

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What's the Story?

In STATE LIKE SLEEP, Katherine (Katherine Waterston) gets a shock when her successful actor husband, Stefan (Michiel Huisman), dies via suicide. A year later, Katherine gets a call that her mother (Mary Kay Place) is in the hospital in Brussels, near Katherine's old apartment, still largely untouched after Stefan's death. She begins to wonder what happened and starts searching for clues, beginning with a nightclub that Stefan frequented that's run by his old friend Emile (Luke Evans). Meanwhile, in her hotel, Katherine meets a mysterious stranger, Edward (Michael Shannon), and her investigation begins to grow uncertain. Will she ever discover Stefan's secret?

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As the title suggests, this so-called thriller could be trying to suggest a dreamlike or sleepwalking state, but instead it tells a terminally disjointed, boring story in a way that can induce sleep. Written and directed by Meredith Danluck, State Like Sleep comes up with many little "clues" that suggest Stefan's suicide wasn't really a suicide -- such as a mysterious photo of him with a woman and the fact that his exit wound is on the opposite side of his dominant hand -- but nothing ever comes of these; they're shrugged off as if the filmmakers were simply too tired to deal with them.

Moreover, though Shannon is always a commanding actor, his presence here is completely useless. Normally this kind of peripheral character will tie in to the mystery in some way, but State Like Sleep only suggests the possibility that he knows something. It's left ambiguous in a wholly unsatisfying, frustrating way. Not to mention that the film's drifting, apathetic pace completely sucks any life out of the mystery, just as the details of the mystery kill the idea of a "dreamlike" movie. At least Waterston is watchable going through the motions; her tormented, pain-filled performance is the only link that connects the rest of this misplaced movie.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about State Like Sleep's depiction of alcohol, smoking, and drug use. Do characters use or abuse these things? Are they glamorized? Are there consequences for using? Why is that important?

  • How is sex depicted? What values are imparted? How does the movie's sexual content affect your opinion of the characters?

  • What violence is shown? What effect does it have? Does it seem gratuitous, or does it get the point across?

  • How does the movie deal with suicide? What message is imparted?

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