Parents' Guide to Stepmom

Movie PG-13 1998 124 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Joyce Slaton By Joyce Slaton , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Contrived yet effective family weepie.

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age 12+

Based on 4 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 4 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Jackie Harrison (Susan Sarandon) is unhappily divorced from Luke (Ed Harris), who's now shacking up with fashion photog Isabel (Julia Roberts), with the two kids shuttled in between the two homes. At first Isabel and Jackie are bitter rivals, and the kids side with Mom. But when Jackie develops fatal cancer, Isabel has to start taking up the slack in the Mommy role.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 4 ):
Kids say ( 4 ):

At every step of Stepmom, audiences feel director Chris Columbus pulling the strings. The plot twists are as contrived as the swelling strings that fill the soundtrack, engineered in some Hollywood lab to jerk the tears right out of you. And yet it works, mostly due to the stellar acting on display.

Julia Roberts is predictably glowing, Susan Sarandon is confident and real, and the little nippers (Jena Malone and Liam Aiken) are so genuine that it's easy to forget that you're being pulled this way and that by the filmmakers, like a puppet on a string. It's manipulative. But there's enough polish on the film that it works. Ultimately, this is depressing but entertaining, a solid choice for a rainy night when no one feels like laughing.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the characters cope with divorce and a death in the family. Do you think their reactions are realistic or too Hollywood? For kids who have experienced either event, what's missing in this movie? Is there a movie you can think of that's more realistic?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : December 15, 1998
  • On DVD or streaming : October 1, 1999
  • Cast : Ed Harris , Julia Roberts , Susan Sarandon
  • Director : Chris Columbus
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s) , Bisexual Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Columbia Tristar
  • Genre : Drama
  • Run time : 124 minutes
  • MPAA rating : PG-13
  • MPAA explanation : language and thematic elements
  • Last updated : January 11, 2025

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