Parents' Guide to Stromboli

Movie NR 2023 86 minutes
Stromboli movie poster: A woman in pink looks at the camera with old buildings behind

Common Sense Media Review

Barbara Shulgasser-Parker By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Woman confronts painful past; sex, violence, language.

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What's the Story?

Sara (Elise Schaap) arrives on the Italian volcanic island of STROMBOLI, clearly a troubled alcoholic. She flirts with a barista and shortly after they're seen behind the counter having clothed sex. Slowly, explanations for her current disastrous state emerge. Her marriage broke up, her teen daughter is furious because Sara drunkenly disrupted her birthday party. Flashbacks to a sexual attack hint at long-buried trauma, all of which surfaces when she's rescued by Jens (Christian Hillborg), the therapist and leader of a retreat on the island specializing in helping broken people. With no place left to go, Sara joins the group and reluctantly, then willingly, allows the pain and humanity of her fellow retreaters to touch her. She leaves with hope and new friends.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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The performances in Stromboli are beautiful and nuanced. The story, at times hard to watch for the intense emotionality, is filled with humor, camaraderie, and warmth among the damaged participants in the program. At one point, a character says she's never had an orgasm and, on cue, the island shakes with volcanic force, provoking a smile and evoking the metaphor for sexual climax: the earth moved. When the participants leave the island, they seem at least hopeful for the future, making this an advertisement for the value of therapy and introspection.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the difficulties families face when a member has a substance abuse or mental health issue.

  • How do you think role-playing helps people with emotional problems improve?

  • What do you think the movie wants us to think about how the retreat participants do in life after they leave the island?

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