Tadpole
By Nell Minow,
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Coming-of-age comedy with some sex.

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TADPOLE centers on15-year-old prep school kid Oscar (Aaron Stanford), who has a crush on his stepmother. Oscar comes home for vacation determined to tell his stepmother how he feels. But it is harder than he thought. There are too many people around all the time. And, when he does get her alone, it is a challenge to get Eve (Sigourney Weaver) to see him as anything other than her husband's bright kid. But the biggest complication is that before he can tell Eve how he feels, he is seduced by her best friend, Diane (Bebe Neuwirth). So, Tadpole combines the coming-of-age movie with some moments of sex comedy. Or, maybe coming-of-age movies always have some moments of sex comedy – making fun of the terror and humiliation of loss of control.
Is It Any Good?
Tadpole is as slight and charming as the title character. It's a silly premise, but it can be a silly time of life. Oscar is just outgrowing his childhood nickname of "Tadpole." He is a winning combination of young and old for his age.
The movie makes up for its weak and awkward premise with some moments of great humor and subtle insight. Oscar's talk with his professor father (John Ritter) about the importance of listening, and his own demonstration of the impact of paying attention on Diane's friends are nicely done. Stanford, Weaver, and Ritter are all first-rate and Bebe Neuwirth's performance is as dry and potent as a double martini.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how young teenagers often develop crushes on unattainable objects as a way of experiencing early feelings of love without the complication of intimacy.
Movie Details
- In theaters: July 9, 2002
- On DVD or streaming: January 21, 2003
- Cast: Aaron Stanford, John Ritter, Sigourney Weaver
- Director: Gary Winick
- Studio: Miramax
- Genre: Drama
- Run time: 77 minutes
- MPAA rating: PG-13
- MPAA explanation: sexual references and situations
- Last updated: March 2, 2022
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