Parents' Guide to TÁR

Movie R 2022 158 minutes
movie poster for Tár (Focus Features, 2022)

Common Sense Media Review

Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Blanchett is outstanding in long #MeToo drama with nudity.

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age 14+

Based on 4 parent reviews

age 15+

Based on 3 kid reviews

What's the Story?

TÁR introduces Lydia Tár (Cate Blanchett), the groundbreaking female conductor of a prestigious orchestra, at the peak of her success. As she prepares both the launch of her autobiography and a highly anticipated performance of Mahler's Fifth Symphony, a former mentee's desperate pleas for attention threaten to undo her.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 4 ):
Kids say ( 3 ):

Patience and a receptive brain are required to fully engage with Blanchett's searing portrait of a highly successful woman who's in tune with everything but herself. As Tár's world building begins, writer-director Todd Field immerses viewers in Lydia Tár's environment, where a five-syllable word is chosen over a simple one every time and names of concertos and prestigious musicians are discussed at length. The niche setting and initially slow pace (the film opens with the full credits -- catering, production accountant, the whole shebang -- on a black screen) will undoubtedly strain the spirit of antsy teens, even those interested in the topic. But once the film gets past establishing Tár as a genius beyond measure, the pace picks up to the point that the long run time isn't felt.

Blanchett is almost always magnificent, but here she proves herself an absolute master of the craft. As a maestra, she wields the baton, speaks about musical technique, and plays the piano with cogency. And Lydia Tár is a complete original: A female character who's deeply complex, utterly unrelatable, intriguing, mesmerizing, and reprehensible. This is a #MeToo story told from the point of view of the powerful predator. If the main character was a man, audiences might not want to sit with the character for nearly three hours. But it's hard not to question the choice of telling this story from a lesbian's point of view. Cinema has often vilified queer characters, and, by and large, most crimes of sexual coercion and abuse of power are still perpetrated by men. The movie market isn't yet saturated with these stories, so why paint a woman as the Weinstein of the classical music world? Field's film is excellent, and Blanchett is exceptional, but it's hard not to worry that the attention that will undoubtedly accompany such a remarkable piece of work will undermine public perception of a historically underrepresented, often maligned group of women.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how depictions of queer characters in entertainment are evolving. How does Lydia Tár compare to other lesbian characters you're familiar with? Do you think a writer or actor needs to have lived experience to authentically portray a queer character?

  • We love to admire the great, but do we equally love to watch them fall? If so, why?

  • Talk about why Lydia's relationships are considered sexual misconduct. What is grooming, and what are the signs? How does she abuse her position of power and influence?

  • Lydia says frequently that to interpret a piece of art correctly, you must identify the creator's intent. What do you think is the filmmaker's intent in making Tár?

  • Would you call this "female-forward" entertainment? Why, or why not?

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