Parents' Guide to Tell That to the Winter Sea

Movie NR 2024 92 minutes
Tell That to the Winter Sea: Greta Bellamacina and Amber Anderson sit outside looking up at the sky

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Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Dreamy British drama has strong language, mature themes.

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What's the Story?

In TELL THAT TO THE WINTER SEA, bride-to-be Jo (Greta Bellamacina) invites a group of friends on a bachelorette weekend, just a week before she's due to marry. Among the women is her school friend and first love Scarlet (Amber Anderson), who she's grown apart from over the years. As the two rekindle their friendship, unresolved feelings surface as they reflect on the past and the futures they're about to embark upon.

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Stilted exchanges, wistful glances, and plenty of cliché clutter up this gentle drama about two women with an unresolved past. Tell That to the Winter Sea reveals glimpses of a more poignant film, and at times a more entertaining one, but struggles to bring its thoughts together into a coherent whole. There's an interesting premise at the heart, of two women who fell in love as teenagers, drifted apart in early adulthood, and now face one preparing to marry a man and begin a life somewhat different to the one she originally had planned. There are some artful scenes of the women dancing together in a field, mirrored by the pair practicing routines on the beach as teenagers, which connect their worlds together through shared passion and history. But when they're left to their own devices in the house, things feel measured and awkward, as they read aloud from books, get lost in classical music, and float together in a pool. Thankfully the other friends arrive to inject some energy, Tamsin Egerton in particular a saving grace every time she steps on-screen. But even these supporting characters lean into cliché and stereotype. The script touches on issues such as eating disorders, depression, and possible sexual assault, as well as constant talk of gender differences. But none are really explored and, on a few occasions, they're brushed aside jarringly quickly. There are swells of emotion and humor, but nothing ever gains much momentum, leaving the film drifting a little untethered at sea.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the relationship between Jo and Scarlet in Tell That to the Winter Sea. How was their story told, both past and present? How did the fact that it's a same-sex relationship affect their behavior and how open they were about it? Why is it important to see same-sex relationships represented on-screen?

  • Discuss the strong language used. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it add to the story?

  • The movie sees a group of friends come together for a bachelorette weekend. How did the film portray the dynamics of the group? What did it say about the importance of friendships? What do you think makes a good friend?

  • Some of the characters within the friendship group fell into stereotype. Did you notice any? Why do you think movies sometimes lean into stereotype? What are the negative aspects of relying on stereotypes and why is it important to challenge them sometimes? Did you think any here were damaging?

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Tell That to the Winter Sea: Greta Bellamacina and Amber Anderson sit outside looking up at the sky

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