The Birthday Cake

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The Birthday Cake
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A Lot or a Little?
The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that The Birthday Cake is a coming-of-age drama that's an homage to mafia movies. So you can expect everything that often comes with that genre: a strip club scene with topless pole dancers, dirty cops, drinking, drugs, smoking, and extremely strong and crass language ("p---y," "f--k," etc.). And, of course, a whole lot of violence. The movie opens with a downright gleeful police brutality scene. And soon after, guns are introduced to a teen who's pressured to use them as a way to stand up to bullies. Weapon use and savage acts only escalate as the teen becomes a man: Viewers will witness vicious beatings, graphic shootings, threats galore, and an epic massacre. The most appalling assassination, though, is how the filmmakers kill the movie's big reveal by giving it away in the title. The movie is being promoted as an Ewan McGregor movie, but he's barely in it (his daughter, Clara McGregor, is co-producer). Expect cameos from other from familiar faces, including Val Kilmer, Ashley Benson, Aldis Hodge, and Marla Maples).
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What's the Story?
On the 10th anniversary of his father's death, Gio (Shiloh Fernandez) heads to the annual family remembrance gathering with his regular contribution: THE BIRTHDAY CAKE made by his mother. In the hours leading up to the event, he becomes aware that all is not well in The Family. And, now that he's a man, he's going to need to wise up fast to navigate a room full of wise guys.
Is It Any Good?
While it's a subpar mafia movie, this violent crime drama is a feat in producing. It's brimming with talent, from Ewan McGregor all the way down to an astonishing number of character and name actors who pop in for a scene or two -- several of them from The Sopranos or Goodfellas. Spotting and identifying familiar faces is part of the joy; it's like you're playing a trivia game. But if Fernandez (who also wrote and produced) has a co-star here, it's really New York. The traditional mob story is told against a changing landscape where housewives and hipsters have overtaken Brooklyn, and now it's more about getting a kombucha at the bodega than a lap dance at the Bada Bing (although that's in here too).
Unfortunately, the great idea of old-school mobsters dealing with a new New York is lost in the visuals. The grittiness of New York remains, but the cinematography looks like it was shot through a 1970s filter, and the on-screen title font belies the fact that it's taking place in the modern day (mentions of Airbnb and an Uber driver are the only tip-offs). Even more confusing is a jump back in time to "10 years ago" (so ... that would be around 2010?) that features William Fichtner with a fake mustache surely ripped off Madame Tussaud's wax statue of Burt Reynolds. But The Birthday Cake's biggest problem is that, despite all of the anxiety of Gio going through an intense day full of bloodshed and threats, it's boring. Each scene has great actors chewing the scenery to make their one day of work memorable, but it's more like a stack of performances than characters who keep you invested. And for all the bloodshed and brutal beatings, the story hinges on a twist that real mobsters might actually describe as "cute."
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how The Birthday Cake depicts drinking, drugs, and smoking. Are they glamorized or normalized?
How does The Birthday Cake compare to other movies about the mob? Did you notice any influence from other films in the genre?
What do you think happens to Gio after the final frame? What do you think about the position he was put in, especially considering who put him in that situation?
Musicians who knew each other professionally and became friends made this film through networking. Why is building relationships important to achieve goals?
Movie Details
- In theaters: June 18, 2021
- On DVD or streaming: July 27, 2021
- Cast: Shiloh Fernandez, Ewan McGregor, Lorraine Bracco
- Director: Jimmy Giannopoulos
- Studio: Screen Media Films
- Genre: Drama
- Run time: 83 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: pervasive language, violence, some sexual references, nudity and drug use
- Last updated: July 1, 2022
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