Parents' Guide to The Boy and the Heron

Movie PG-13 2023 124 minutes
The Boy and the Heron Movie Poster: Mahito stands next to the ocean

Common Sense Media Review

Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 10+

Breathtaking personal story has self-harm, smoking.

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Why Age 10+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 11+

Based on 16 parent reviews

age 11+

Based on 10 kid reviews

Kids say the film, while visually stunning and thematically rich, contains significant violence and mature themes that may not be suitable for younger audiences, as it addresses grief, self-harm, and includes graphic moments. Many reviewers noted that it is more appropriate for older teens and adults, with some describing it as confusing and abstract, particularly in its storytelling and emotional depth.

  • graphic violence
  • mature themes
  • suitable for older kids
  • confusing storyline
  • abstract elements
  • emotional depth
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What's the Story?

In Hayao Miyazaki's THE BOY AND THE HERON, it's been three years since 11-year-old Mahito's (voiced by Soma Santoki in the Japanese original and Luca Padovan in the English dub) mother died in a fire. He's moving to the countryside to join his father, Shoichi (Takuya Kimura/Christian Bale), and Shoichi's new wife, Natsuko (Yoshino Kimura/Gemma Chan), who are expecting a baby. They're living on the estate of Mahito's great granduncle, who went mad from "reading too many books" -- and Mahito is told that the mysterious tower where his ancestor lived is off limits. Unhappy about all of the upheaval and still mourning his mother, Mahito injures himself so that he can stay in his room. While recovering, a heron comes to the bedroom window and entreats Mahito to follow him into another world.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 16 ):
Kids say ( 10 ):

Miyazaki hasn't lost his touch, creating another hand-drawn world that's infused with supernatural wonder. His illustrations in The Boy and the Heron are breathtaking, displaying nature with extraordinary gorgeousness -- like sun breaking through clouds or seeing what's under the surface of the water from a boat. The filmmaker's many decades of life have only allowed his imagination to flourish, leading to the movie's fantasy-infused version of his own childhood tragedy. The film is like the revered animator's version of Alice in Wonderland mixed with The Wizard of Oz: A tween facing a difficult moment unintentionally travels to a mysterious, magical, and dangerous world, following his curiosity and finding his courage. That said, this film is a complete original.

The movie's quieter, slower parts may lose some viewers. But Mahito's journey is an excellent one for kids to take part in, as the film shows that forces outside of our control can and will put our world into a tailspin, sometimes in painful and tragic ways. But that doesn't mean that life can't still be good.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Miyazaki uses imagination and creativity in The Boy and the Heron to tell the story of a pivotal moment in his life. If you made a movie about your own life, what moment would you build the story around? How would you make it cinematic for viewers?

  • How does Mahito find his courage? How does he demonstrate perseverance? Why are these important character strengths?

  • What is the film's message? Why do you think it's aimed at younger viewers?

  • What was going on in Japan in the early 1940s? How do those events affect Mahito's life? What elements of Japanese life and culture from that era stood out to you?

  • Why did Mahito hurt himself? Does it solve his problem? Can you think of a more constructive way that he could have addressed his depression and frustration?

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