Parents' Guide to The Dead Don't Hurt

Movie R 2024 129 minutes
The Dead Don't Hurt Movie Poster: Appearing like a painting, there are faces (Olsen, Vivienne, etc.) and a Western backdrop

Common Sense Media Review

Jeffrey M. Anderson By Jeffrey M. Anderson , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Mortensen's elegant Western has strong violence, language.

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age 17+

Based on 2 parent reviews

What's the Story?

In THE DEAD DON'T HURT, pioneer Olsen (Viggo Mortensen) buries his wife near their small homestead, and then packs up and leaves with his young son. In flashback, viewers learn how the relationship between Olsen and Vivienne (Vicky Krieps) began, grew, and changed. He's Danish, and she's a French-speaking immigrant from Canada. They meet in San Francisco and immediately connect, heading to Nevada to start a life together on Olsen's small ranch. But in the nearby town of Elk Flats, the crooked Mayor Rudolph Schiller (Danny Huston)—along with powerful, wealthy rancher Alfred Jeffries (Garret Dillahunt)—rules with an iron fist. Even worse is Jeffries' son, Weston (Solly McLeod), who's entitled and violent. Weston sets his sights on Vivienne, who handily rebuffs his advances. But when the Civil War looms and Olsen feels the pull to enlist for the Union, Vivienne is left to fight her own war at home.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say : Not yet rated

Mortensen's Western has a slightly unwieldy structure, but it also has elegance and a sense of patience, and its cast gives strong, touching performances. Mortensen—who not only wrote and directed The Dead Don't Hurt, but also stars in it and even composed the music—gives the film an unusual timeline. Sometimes it works great, such as in the opening sequence, a violent killing spree that creeps over the rest of the movie like a shadow. But other times, viewers flash to Vivienne's childhood, which can be disorienting, as well as distracting from the main story thread.

On the other hand, there's a kind of dignity here, in that the characters all seem to know who they are. Olsen's little ranch is humble, but it suits him and Vivienne perfectly. Even the villains—except for loose-cannon Weston, who's a little too generic—behave with an air of quiet confidence. Best of all is Vivienne, an uncharacteristically strong female character in a genre that's usually dominated by men. Her inner strength puts her on equal footing with everyone she encounters; she won't be intimidated or invalidated. In an early scene, she dines with a blabbermouth bore; fed up, she just gets up and walks out. Moments like that help ensure that when The Dead Don't Hurt turns, inevitably, to vengeance, it feels somehow earned; it's not the only thing this movie is actually about.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about The Dead Don't Hurt's violence. How did it make you feel? Was it exciting? Shocking? What did the movie show or not show to achieve this effect? Why is that important?

  • Do you consider Vivienne a role model? Why, or why not?

  • How is bullying depicted? How is the person who does the bullying dealt with? What are some better ways of handling those who bully others?

  • What's interesting about the Western genre? In what ways does it use the past to tell stories about the present?

  • How are drinking and smoking depicted? Are they glamorized? Are there consequences? How does the time and setting affect the way substance use is portrayed (and the impact of seeing it)?

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