Parents' Guide to The Disappointments Room

Movie R 2016 100 minutes
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Jeffrey M. Anderson By Jeffrey M. Anderson , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Violent haunted-house movie lives up to its title.

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Based on 4 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In THE DISAPPOINTMENTS ROOM, Dana (Kate Beckinsale) and David (Mel Raido) and their son, Lucas (Duncan Joiner), move from the big city to an old country house to get away from memories of a recent tragedy. As Dana, an architect, starts exploring the house, she discovers a strange little room that locks from the outside. She also starts seeing strange things around the house and its grounds, such as an old man and a black dog. And she begins having nightmares and visions that are so real she can't tell them from reality. Is the house haunted, or does Dana need to reconcile her past to come to terms with her present?

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 2 ):
Kids say ( 4 ):

Even though it stars an accomplished actress and has an intriguing design, this haunted-house movie doesn't have much to offer. The Disappointments Room's scares, mysteries, and character relationships are all numbingly routine. Director D.J. Caruso unsuccessfully mirrors The Shining with a few shots and uses the old "it was all a dream" trick a few too many times. Even the legend behind the title -- a "disappointments room" is supposedly a place where rich people once hid their socially unacceptable offspring -- isn't really explored beyond a few gruesome photos of deformed children.

Beckinsale does her best as the suffering mother, and Dana's drunk ranting scene looks like it must have been fun to play, but ultimately the movie doesn't give her anywhere to go with her anguish. David is written sympathetically, but English actor Raido plays him with an irritating, high-pitched Brooklyn accent that makes him seem insensitive. Bottom line? The Disappointments Room comes across as a movie with very little thought or enthusiasm put into it and only disappointment at the end.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about The Disappointments Room's violence. How much of it is directed toward children? At animals? How much of it is shown in dreams or nightmares or visions? How does that affect the story? What's the impact of media violence on kids?

  • What makes this a horror movie? How scary is it? What's the appeal of horror movies?

  • What drives the main character to drink in the movie? Are there realistic consequences? Why does that matter?

  • What do you think of the idea of a "disappointments room"? Does such a thing seem real? How could you find out more about the topic?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : September 9, 2016
  • On DVD or streaming : December 20, 2016
  • Cast : Kate Beckinsale , Lucas Till , Mel Raido
  • Director : D.J. Caruso
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Relativity Media
  • Genre : Horror
  • Topics : Fantasy
  • Run time : 100 minutes
  • MPAA rating : R
  • MPAA explanation : violent content, bloody images, some sexuality and language
  • Last updated : October 1, 2025

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