Parents' Guide to The Dresser

Movie PG 1983 118 minutes
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Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 12+

Oscar-nominated British drama has drinking, iffy language.

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What's the Story?

In THE DRESSER, while on a Shakespeare tour with a disorganized theater company during World War II, personal assistant Norman (Tom Courtenay) struggles to help aging actor, Sir (Albert Finney). Ravaged by psychological trauma as he relives his title roles, both on and off the stage, Sir spends his time confused, distressed, and often drunk, as Norman supports, pampers, and enables him -- and those around him -- to ensure the show goes on.

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Both Courtenay and Finney were Oscar nominated for their roles here, and it is no surprise given the absolute tour de force performances at the heart of this classic British movie. Based on a play about a play, The Dresser has an old-school theatrical quality, rich with tradition, that really illuminates the gloomy backstage world of the theater. From the antiquated storm effects to the rituals for luck and fear of mentioning the dreaded "Scottish play" (Macbeth), it is not just Finney's disintegrating psyche that hangs by a thread, but the entire production.

Courtenay shines as the maniacally practical "dresser" -- all soothing words, upbeat pep talks, and swigs of the hard stuff -- treading a fine line between devoted care and mild contempt, to keep both men stumbling toward a goal of greatness long since past. Finney's formidable bully of a man is, in turns, lost boy and raging bull, the sheer power of his booming Shakespearean projection enough to bring a moving locomotive to halt when he hollers "Stop that train!" as the troupe rush through a station. Cleverly written and beautifully directed to capture the finer details of both farce and tragedy alike, this is a true classic of British stage and screen, and merges the traditions of both expertly with the help of some true greats of the British scene.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how drinking is portrayed in The Dresser. Do any of the characters drink too much? Does their behavior seem realistic/believable? Are there consequences for what they do?

  • Sir appears to have some mental health issues. Did it feel like an authentic account of someone suffering with mental illness? Why, or why not? Why is it important to ensure such portrayals are realistic and not stereotypical?

  • Discuss the relationship between Norman and Sir. Do you think it was a healthy relationship? Talk about the difference between supporting and enabling.

  • Talk about some of the language used. Did you find any of it offensive?

  • Do you think the movie has aged well? Are there any aspects that you feel are problematic? How might this movie look if it was made today?

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