Parents' Guide to The End of the Affair

Movie R 2000 102 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Rich Phippen By Rich Phippen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Period drama about lost love has sex and nudity.

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What's the Story?

THE END OF THE AFFAIR is set in 1940s London, where novelist Maurice Bendrix (Ralph Fiennes) runs into an old army friend, Henry (Stephen Rea), and his wife, Sarah (Julianne Moore). Unbeknownst to Henry, Sarah and Maurice started an affair two years before, carrying on until Sarah broke it off without giving a reason. Henry confides in Maurice that he suspects Sarah of being unfaithful and has hired a detective to follow her. As Maurice becomes involved with the investigation, his feelings for Sarah are reignited.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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This is a movie about adults for adults, making it fairly inaccessible for younger audiences. Despite a strong, mysterious opening, the movie descends into melodrama, and the resolution relies on a spiritual edge that doesn't match the tone of the rest of the story. Based on the novel by Graham Greene, the story feels better suited to page than screen.

Moore's understated performance and faultless English accent, coupled with Fiennes' convincing turn as a repressed, humorless writer make The End of the Affair perfectly watchable. But by the time it ends, this farcical love triangle is unlikely to warrant a second viewing.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the adultery in The End of the Affair. Do you think less of the lead characters for having an affair? What are the ramifications of adultery in the movie, and what might they be in real life?

  • Discuss how sex is depicted in the movie. What role does sex play in Maurice and Sarah's relationship? Talk about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

  • What role do faith and God play in the movie? How does Maurice and Sarah's relationship with God differ?

  • How are alcohol and smoking portrayed? Are they accurate for the time period?

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