Parents' Guide to The French Lieutenant's Woman

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Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Classic romance has non-graphic sexual content, language.

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What's the Story?

In THE FRENCH LIEUTENANT'S WOMAN, actors Anna (Meryl Streep) and Mike (Jeremy Irons) are filming a period romance, set in Victorian-era England. Their movie follows the relationship between shamed outcast Sarah and scientist gentleman Charles. This onscreen relationship mirrors that of the actors' offscreen extramarital affair in the real world. Will life imitate art to the final credits, or is a different ending written for the present-day romance?

Is It Any Good?

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Complex and multi-layered, the movie uses a film-within-a-film structure to ground its story in a modern reality, while still exploring the restrictive sensibilities of the Victorian era. The French Lieutenant's Woman was adapted for the screen by Harold Pinter, from John Fowles' novel and saw Streep Oscar nominated for her dual performance as Anna and Sarah. Streep moves effortlessly between the flippant Hollywood actress and the melodramatic Victorian outcast, while Irons is convincingly intoxicated and frustrated with both versions.



Stunning cinematography in the Victorian scenes evokes the wildness of Sarah's character, the crashing sea and dense, labyrinthine woodland a reflection of her troubled psyche and her rebellion against the strict, suffocating society of the time. Though the impact of the modern-day scenes is sometimes lost in comparison, with the relationship feeling somewhat subdued in its realism. Well-crafted and beautifully acted, with impressive period detail throughout, this is a wistful and emotive study of passion and desire at once restricted by and transcending the boundaries of societal rules.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how The French Lieutenant's Woman portrays sex. Is it affectionate? Respectful? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

  • Talk about the language used in the movie. How did it change in the scenes set in Victorian England to those in modern day? Discuss the idea that language changes over the years. Why do you think that's the case?

  • How does the movie depict Victorian England? In what ways is society shown to differ for men and women?

  • Discuss the dual reality structure. How did the movie make it clear which era it was in? Can you think of any other examples of a film-within-a-film structure?

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