The Good Girl

Movie review by
Will Fertman, Common Sense Media
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Story of love and frustration isn't for kids.
  • R
  • 2002
  • 94 minutes

Parents say

age 17+
Based on 3 reviews

Kids say

age 15+
Based on 1 review

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

The movie is a parable about how the absolute, black and white beliefs of youth give way to mature compromise.

Positive Role Models & Representations

None of the main characters are people you would want your kids to emulate.


Two offscreen deaths, one by suicide.


There is a scene of coerced sex that verges on rape; other sex scenes.


Strong language is used throughout the film.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Alcohol and drug abuse (pot) are depicted.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this film deals with potentially upsetting issues such as mental illness and infidelity in an understated manner. Strong language is used throughout the film, and there are several scenes depicting sex without frontal nudity. Alcohol and drug abuse (pot) are depicted. There is a scene of coerced sex that verges on rape, and two offscreen deaths, one by suicide.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byReePow March 24, 2020

NOT for anyone under 18

This movie is NOT for anyone under 18.........
Adult Written bywonder dove October 17, 2013

Offbeat & Compelling!

I recently viewed this movie and it was very depressing yet very engaging. It's deep and dramatic. However, I often wondered why they would call it the... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written bywatched a lot o... February 5, 2021


I love jennifer aniston she is an amazing actress but the story line was kinda messed up but that was the whole point.A lot of make out scenes and some sex in i... Continue reading

What's the story?

THE GOOD GIRL is a mature story about love and frustration with special appeal for fans (teenage and adult) of Jennifer Aniston. In a suburban Texas town, Justine (Anniston) works at the local Retail Rodeo. Her job is a bore, and her jerk of a husband (John C. Reilly) spends every afternoon stoned on the couch with his buddy (Tim Blake Nelson). Alienated from everyone, Justine thinks she's found a soulmate in Holden (Jake Gyllenhaal), the sulky new cashier at the Rodeo. He's really a writer, and he's named after the main character in Catcher in the Rye, and nobody understands him. That he's only 22 to Justine's 30 makes him all the more forbidden fruit, and they quickly start a torrid affair. But Justine has much more to lose than Holden, and as he becomes more and more needy, Justine finds herself forced to choose between her new love and the everyday life she finds slipping away.

Is it any good?

The Good Girl has both funny and touching moments; all the actors give very sharp performances with great dialogue, but the plot fails slightly at the end. If this movie is a parable about how the absolute, black and white beliefs of youth give way to mature compromise, the story itself should never just fade to an unsatisfying "realistic" gray.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about Justine's decision at the end of the film, and how it might affect her life in the future.

  • The title of the film is both serious and ironic -- in what ways is Justine a good girl, and how does she balance her desires with the good of the people around her?

  • What made Holden so attractive to Justine at the beginning, and how did this make him "a demon" by the end?

  • Although Christianity plays a relatively small role in the story, parents with strong faith will want to talk about the issues of forgiveness and coercion explicitly brought up by the film. What's the difference between professing a faith and adhering to it?

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