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By Charles Cassady Jr.
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Discussion-worthy '70s anti-romantic comedy.
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The Heartbreak Kid (1972)
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What's the Story?
Leonard Cantrow (Charles Grodin), a nebbishy sporting-goods salesman in his 20s, marries his girlfriend Lila (Jeannie Berlin) in a traditional Jewish ceremony in New York City. During the newlyweds' Miami honeymoon, Leonard begins noticing all sorts of things about Lila he doesn't like. When Lila gets a horrible sunburn and is confined to the hotel room, Leonard starts spending hours instead with Kelly (Cybill Shepherd), a sleek college-age blonde, vacationing from Minnesota, whom he met on the beach. Leonard begins telling increasingly outrageous lies to Lila to explain his absences. Kelly isn't upset when Leonard confesses he's married, and Leonard promises he'll inform Lila he wants a divorce.
Is It Any Good?
THE HEARTBREAK KID, at least in its first half, is a "romantic comedy" that seems to be the opposite of romantic, or traditionally comedic. Dark comedy is more like it. Unlike the 2007 remake, the original doesn't go for R-rated belly laughs but rather for the shocking absurdity and impropriety of it all, plus an ethnic-cultural angle absent from the Ben Stiller version. The plot is uncomfortable, but it does make rich discussion material with older children about relationships, commitments, and choices.
The squirming scene in which Leonard tells Lila he wants a divorce is the film's most affecting. As unappealing as Lila may be, she adores Leonard and she's being destroyed, while the salesman hero puts a "positive" spin on the devastating news. Viewers may feel some sympathy for Leonard as he confronts Kelly's stern father, who seems to harbor anti-Semitic feelings towards him. Though there's a twist at the end, you're left pondering what Leonard's given up. He seems to be wondering, too.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the way Kelly tells cheating husband Leonard he's the "noblest" man she's ever met. Is she being incredibly dumb, or does she have a point? What has Leonard sacrificed because of his obsession with Kelly? What could/should the characters have done differently? What do you think will happen to them after the ending?
Movie Details
- In theaters : May 13, 1972
- On DVD or streaming : February 2, 2002
- Cast : Charles Grodin , Cybill Shepherd , Eddie Albert , Jeannie Berlin
- Director : Elaine May
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Anchor Bay Entertainment
- Genre : Comedy
- Run time : 104 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : parental guidance
- Last updated : September 20, 2019
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