Parents' Guide to The In Between

Movie PG-13 2022 116 minutes
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Jennifer Green By Jennifer Green , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Love, loss, and language in tragic teen romance.

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age 11+

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What's the Story?

Tessa (Joey King) is a bit of a loner in high school and in her adopted family before she meets Skylar (Kyle Allen) in THE IN BETWEEN. She's also a talented photographer whose instructor is encouraging her to apply to the prestigious Rhode Island School of Design. She meets Skylar when they are the only two spectators at a French film screening, which he has to translate for her when the subtitles don't work. They embark on a deep summer romance that changes both their lives but ends in tragedy when Skylar is killed in a car accident. Tessa is convinced he's trying to communicate with her from the afterlife, and she enlists the help of her best friend Shannon (Celeste O'Connor) and a spiritual author (Donna Biscoe) to reach him, putting her own life at risk in the process.

Is It Any Good?

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This teen romantic tragedy aims to up the ante on a familiar genre with grander artistic aspirations, more sophisticated characters, and supernatural elements. If the seriousness works, it's thanks to King's and Allen's acting in The In Between. They avoid hitting false notes, and the script veers clear of too-obvious stereotypes (the "jock" and the "artist"). It does try a tad too hard to depict the pair of high school seniors as sophisticated beyond their years, speaking multiple languages, enjoying French cinema, debating British fiction, snapping artsy black-and-white photos, and attending gallery openings. The pretensions are passable because they fit with the characters' backstories and are woven into their love story, not just introduced and dropped. The pair is also contrasted against other, more typical teens, but there's a refreshing lack of obnoxious portrayals here too.

Tessa has a literal broken heart when Skylar dies, confirming her long-held belief that love never lasts. She keeps people at arm's length, hiding behind her camera. We learn this through a back-and-forth narrative counting down to Skylar's fatal accident and following her grief-fueled insistence afterward that he's still trying to communicate with her. A couple of these scenes are chill-inducing, but the film isn't scary and doesn't aim to be. It is, however, noticeably visually dark at moments -- for example, in the movie theater, the darkroom, an abandoned hotel, and at night. Tessa's loss is processed in a protracted spiritual meeting with Skylar in the afterlife "in between" (complete with a Parisian rendezvous, faintly echoing La La Land's dreamlike postscript). She discovers that life is actually worth living after all. It's a positive message viewers can feel good about, even through tears.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the idea of the place dubbed The In Between. Do you believe people can get stuck between life and death? Do you believe in ghosts? Why, or why not?

  • Why does Tessa not want to share her art? Why is she hesitant about applying to college?

  • Vickie tells Tessa you have to be open to experiencing loss and sadness in order to experience and appreciate love and happiness. Do you agree? Why, or why not?

  • What was the main message of Tessa's portfolio presentation?

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