The Lady in the Van

Movie review by Sandie Angulo Chen, Common Sense Media
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Common Sense says

age 13+

Maggie Smith is unforgettable in (mostly) true dramedy.

PG-13 2015 104 minutes
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age 14+

Based on 2 reviews

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age 12+

Based on 3 reviews

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A Lot or a Little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

What Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that The Lady in the Van is an adaptation of English playwright/author/actor Alan Bennett's diary, memoir, and play about his unusual friendship with Mary Shepherd, an elderly homeless woman who convinced him to let her park her ramshackle van in his London driveway ... for 15 years. Directed by Bennett's friend and longtime artistic collaborator, Nicholas Hytner, and starring Maggie Smith (who also played Mary in the play and TV versions of the story), the movie is an appealing tale of a unique inter-generational friendship. There are a couple of brief shots of a dead body (one bloody, one peaceful) and some subtle allusions to Alan's amorous late-night visits from younger men (though not even kissing is shown), as well as an uncharacteristic utterance of the expletive "f--king." Otherwise, this is a character study and relationship drama about how sometimes the unlikeliest people can change your life.

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CinnamonJoy
CinnamonJoy Adult
August 1, 2018
age 14+

Misleading trailer leads to disappointment

The language warning given in the other parent review here is excessive in my opinion. There's one use of "f***ing" (which was altered to "bloody" in the DVD version I watched) and occasional, contextually appropriate use of "s***". I'd say there are worse things to be concerned about with this film. I've rated it for 14+ because it requires maturity to really understand the point of the story. Younger kids are just going to think it's a boring movie about a horrible smelly old lady, and miss all the underlying messages about finding authenticity, purpose and fulfillment in life, etc. Put simply, it's a film for adults. I'm a big fan of Maggie Smith and enjoyed the trailer, but I was ultimately disappointed. There's little in the way of lightness or comedy. Miss Shepherd's past is downright depressing, with plenty of glimpses of institutional abuse, especially at the convent she joined as a young nun, as well as law enforcement, social and medical welfare agencies, and even within her own family. Alan Bennett's story isn't much more uplifting, as he deals with his mother's decline into dementia, his not-entirely-closeted homosexuality, and the struggles of finding success as a playwright and actor. I thought the story was going to be primarily about Miss Shepherd and her funny eccentricities; instead it's a film that is as much about Alan Bennett if not more, given that his character is literally split into two parts that have conversations with each other. (That of itself is not a bad thing, and I discovered later that the film is based on his own memoir which would explain all the navel gazing. It's just not the film I was expecting to see based on the trailer.) On the positive side, the performances are wonderful, and it's a testament to Maggie Smith's talent that she can make such an unlikeable person endearing in her own way. I would say this is a good film if you're in the mood for a character-driven drama. But if you're looking for something heart-warming, light-hearted, or uplifting, give "the Lady in the Van" a miss.
Linda L.
Linda L. Adult
August 30, 2017
age 14+
Awesome for kids but not appropriate for kids who cant handle bad bad language

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Too much swearing
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What's the Story?

THE LADY IN THE VAN is a film adaptation of English playwright and author Alan Bennett's (Alex Jennings) diary-turned-play about his unusual relationship with Mary Shepherd (Maggie Smith), a homeless woman known for parking her van in his London neighborhood and who eventually parked it in his driveway, permanently, for the last 15 years of her life. Alan and Mary aren't exactly regular pals, but they have an understanding. Never once does he kick her to the curb; instead, he lets her use his lavatory and live out of her van on his property. While well-meaning neighbors stop by with occasional meals and treats for the surly Mary, it's Alan who deals with her on a daily basis -- and ultimately realizes there's so much more to her than meets the eye.

Is It Any Good?

Smith is a force of nature in her third professional outing as Mary Shepherd, the titular transient woman who literally parked herself in playwright Alan Bennett's life. In a role that you'd swear was written for her -- were it not for the fact that Shepherd did, in fact, exist -- Smith is gloriously curmudgeonly as "Mary," a woman too proud to see herself as homeless (her old van, of course, is her home). When a passerby calls her a "sodding beggar," she yells back that she's "self employed" and Alan is her "neighbor." Smith and Jennings' chemistry is fabulous as they banter and bicker. But she's at her best when she's being perfectly blunt. She isn't a romanticized, kind-hearted homeless woman who's willing to share her sage wisdom about a reversal of fortune; Mary is more likely to bark at someone than to thank them. So when she finally asks Alan to give her his hand, it's a moment of exquisite tenderness and connection between two individuals co-existing on the same property.

As Alan, Jennings plays two roles -- the Alan who lives and the Alan who writes. They dress differently and have distinct personalities, and Jennings is fabulous as both. Fellow British stage and screen veterans Frances de la Tour and Roger Allam appear as Alan's neighbors, who tolerate and occasionally look in on Mary -- but this film is really about Mary and Alan, who quietly observes her life, usually in contrast to that of his own aging mother, who lives in another part of England where he can't just walk out the door and see her. Smith and Jennings are a wonderful match, and The Lady in the Van is a quietly powerful testament to how sometimes it's the unlikeliest of people who make a huge impact on your life.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the fact that not too many movies deal with inter-generational friendships between adults. Can you think of movies other than The Lady in the Van that do feature older characters in a meaningful way?

  • Is Mary a role model? Why or why not? What about Alan?

  • Why is Alan the only one on his street to allow Mary to park there? Why didn't he boot her out? Do you think Alan cared about Mary -- and vice-versa?

  • Maggie Smith has played this role twice before; what do you think of her performance?

  • How do the characters in The Lady in the Van demonstrate compassion? Why is this an important character strength?

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