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By Renee Schonfeld
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Powerful, mature family drama has drugs, language, sex.
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The Land of Steady Habits
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What's the Story?
Anders Hill (Ben Mendelsohn) has taken drastic steps to change his life in THE LAND OF STEADY HABITS. In searching for "meaning" and "passion," Anders has left a successful, high-income career as a financial trader and his long marriage to Helene (Edie Falco). He's on tenuous footing with Preston (Thomas Mann), his 20-something son, an alumnus of rehab who hasn't yet found his way. Six months after Anders disrupted his life, things aren't progressing as he anticipated. His ex-wife is involved in a new relationship, which bothers him more than he thought it would. His finances are strained because of his "generosity" to Helene. He's persona non grata in the community. And, most surprising to him, Anders' sex life fizzles. A chance encounter with Charlie (Charlie Tahan), the teen son of old friends, finds Anders smoking dope and, inadvertently, PCP. The incident results in a series of escalating bad calls on Anders' part. His judgment fails him. Complications, not entirely under his control, follow. Recovery for everyone is at risk.
Is It Any Good?
Sensational performances, a strong script, insightful direction, and an original take on the vulnerability of an affluent community help create a transformative tale of relationships and parenting. Nicole Holofcener, who in her earlier well-received films (Enough Said, Lovely and Amazing) focused on complex women, this time turns the screen over to the wonderful Ben Mendelsohn. Even often unlikable, unforgivable, and smug, Mendelsohn's Anders still manages to elicit a strong rooting interest. The supporting actors are rich and rooted in reality, bringing both nuance and pathos to roles that might have been conventional in lesser hands. Charlie Tahan, as Charlie, deserves special mention for a performance that's honest and heartbreaking. The Land of Steady Habits is highly recommended for mature folks only.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the portrayal of teen drug use in The Land of Steady Habits. Are the scenes that include drugs made to look cool or seductive? Are there consequences for such behavior? Why is it important for films to show such consequences to audiences?
What about adults consuming alcohol in this film? Are those scenes made to look cool? Are there consequences? How much do you think Anders' use of both alcohol and drugs impacted his behavior?
This movie takes place in an upscale Connecticut community. Connecticut is sometimes referred to as "The Land of Steady Habits." Find out what the term means and how it relates to this story.
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming : September 14, 2018
- Cast : Ben Mendelsohn , Edie Falco , Thomas Mann
- Director : Nicole Holofcener
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Netflix
- Genre : Drama
- Topics : Book Characters , Friendship
- Run time : 98 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- Last updated : September 30, 2025
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